Oh wait… no… hang on.. ya right!! :-)

I take that right back!

Tho Thorry Mooothey!

See above. No guns jumped here (that sounds like a very energetic thing to do btw!).

Showing off? By posting without much prior thought? By openly stating I…[Read more]

Again, my post was selfish. They were questions that popped into my head, which I posted for the purpose of discussion.  I had very few preconceived ideas, other than what an Alpha is to me, which I’ve since posted.  I’m still considering the other q…[Read more]

“I’m quite selfish in that I want to hear the opinions of others purely to see if they bring anything new to the table.  Perhaps something I’ve not considered before. Something I may even adopt over my current thinking.”

Throwing out a hook, see what the catch would be

“I’m just after opinions (and defini…[Read more]

1) I never mentioned gender.

2) If you Googled, cut and pasted – I’d rather have your opinions (unless of course, the paste reflects exactly your own opinion, in which case thank you).

3) I wasn’t particularly interested in the history of the terminology (I have Google and other resources for that pur…[Read more]

1) I never mentioned gender.

2) If you Googled, cut and pasted – I’d rather have your opinions (unless of course, the paste reflects exactly your own opinion, in which case thank you).

3) I wasn’t particularly interested in the history of the terminology (I have Google and other resources for that pur…[Read more]

I will say though, that to me, a True Alpha never bullies.

How do you spot which is which?

What makes A True Alpha?  Is there such a thing?

If so, where do Wannabe’s fall short?

What differentiates them from the Bully?

[quote=Instead of sitting on your high horse, why don’t you have the courage to pick out the posts you refer to, instead of a general disgust, making out you have the nobel peace prize.
If not, then don’t moan abou them.

Since when has ‘name and shame’ been a prerequisite of posting? I’ll check with the Internet Police, but I…[Read more]

@OMalleyTheAlleyCat wrote:

This is all so confusing.

Can all the baddies wear black and all the good ‘un’s wear white please – like in all the old TV progs and movies. Oh wait, then I’d have to ask people what they’re wearing. Scrap that.

Ok.. can somebody who is trustworthy and a good judge of character, please compile…

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Can all the baddies wear black and all the good ‘un’s wear white please – like in all the old TV progs and movies. Oh wait, then I’d have to ask people what they’re wearing. Scrap that.

Ok.. can somebody who is trustworthy and a good judge of character, please compile a list of chat goodies and baddies so I know who to…[Read more]

Well alley, thanks for this, after two attempts, I’m positively ……

MALE ….

Wtf ! :?

Awww Poli.. I don’t think it’s an exact science lol, but if ya need me to vouch for ya anytime.. just let me know. In fact.. if ya have to fill any forms in or anything, where it asks for “Sex” – just put “Female – ask OMalley” :D

hang on mal;let me get this right,are you suggesting there may be men masquerading as ladeees on these here boards?

The thought never entered my mind… ‘onest… :-

…then you’re not really being bullied – you’ve let the a-hole push you into a fight, which is different.

But surely, being ‘pushed into a fight’ still counts as being bullied. After all, if there was no initial ‘pushing’, there would be no ‘fight’ right?

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only if you post your Brave dance :P

:lol: Hmm.. I’m not sure the world is ready. I think I may be one of those artistes who are only really appreciated after death (though personally, I reckon my ‘moves’ will be somewhat compromised post mortem) :lol:

I promise i’ll be good

Is it ok if I sell tickets so people can witness that? :lol:

*does his ‘How Brave Am I?’ dance*

lol mal 50 yr old bloke walks into shop(me) er can I have a bag of poms please er there not for me its for my grand kid like :D

lol… see.. I knew there was some reason I shoulda had kids. Dammit!

@rogue trader wrote:

oh whilst youre here mal im sorry I was a bit of a Richard and said id hack you,i wouldn’t know how to and…

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1) We all have different ideas who the ‘baddies’ are.
2) We all have different ideas how to deal with them.

Which really is one thing:

1) We all have different ideas.

The only possible way to resolve anything therefore, is complete and utter dictatorship (democratically elected of course!).

Vote me into…[Read more]

..unless his dad really did run off with a 1 eyed dwarf from accrington…

Probably not, but mine did. I’m now having flashbacks!

@coathanger wrote:

At the risk of annoying Mr Cat, I really am getting tired of the dramatics.

If dramatics bore you, you might want to reconsider where you choose to hang out.. ‘cos they kinda go…[Read more]

ps Mr Cat, I was using your name tongue-in-cheek, but I’ve removed it from the other story. I have no wish to indicate that you’re ‘taking sides’ – don’t worry.

Thanks Scep, but it wasn’t your comment that prompted my post – you could have left it in for me. Rest assured, I’ll overcome my debilitating shyness and speak up if…[Read more]

im not blowing me own trumpet or owt but the phrase dismissed was invented by me
and I for one am proud that a poster as talented as coat hanger as deemed to use it,

I hate to be the one to tell you these things, but

1) ‘Dismissed’ is a word, not a phrase

2) It’s been around since the early 15th century – surely you’re not…[Read more]

@OMalleyTheAlleyCat wrote:

@Trapper wrote:

Start a thread calling someone a twat you have an instant success (if it can be called that) simples

Wonder which kind of ‘dig’ post would see most activity.. one where the subject is generally highly regarded (genuinely!) or one where where the ‘victim’ of the opening post is almost…

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Try playing with balls of wool

I like that idea. Already half way there. Just need some wool now. :lol:

Start a thread calling someone a twat you have an instant success (if it can be called that) simples

Wonder which kind of ‘dig’ post would see most activity.. one where the subject is generally highly regarded (genuinely!) or one where where the ‘victim’ of the opening post is almost universally disliked.

I think I need to find a hobby.

@OMalleyTheAlleyCat wrote:

@rogue trader wrote:

well yeh mal good point
so
I suppose its just a case of horses for courses
different strokes for>>>>>>
we are basically all onions in the same melting pot
and that folks

is why we are here.

Aye Rogue. Add in the fact that interpreting the typed word is far from an exact science..…

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No wonder I tell you how handsome you are!!

Awww bless ya! If I was capable of blushing, I would be doing just that right now!

Will I still be as handsome if I disagree with ya on something? :P

well yeh mal good point
so
I suppose its just a case of horses for courses
different strokes for>>>>>>
we are basically all onions in the same melting pot
and that folks

is why we are here.

Aye Rogue. Add in the fact that interpreting the typed word is far from an exact science.. and the result is pretty predictable. How…[Read more]

Love the bit of the amount of views and no comments….but Coats not bothered…..oh no!! Who the hell reads how many views they get???
The issue we have here is …Coat doesn’t like negative feedback……historically he hasn’t had much negativity….its all been praise.

I think, if everybody is being honest, then we’re all…[Read more]

@rogue trader wrote:

if anybody wrote a thread about me like that
id me mortified and would never go in a chat room again.

Shame you didn’t say type on boards, i was almost half tempted :twisted:

Had to chuckle at that!

ok lets use balloons as an example for a minute
if I was to reply to her,well don’t you bother explain balloons
because your opinions in here carry about as much weight as a dodgy kwik save bag with one handle and a little hole just starting to flourish at the bottom
would that be perceived as

1,banter
2,abusive
3,hes just…

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Wouldn’t bother trying to explain :lol:

Now ya tell me!
:lol:

Agree entirely Malley in theory. Kenty can post on anything she wishes to, as can I. However, Ive written enough stories over the years on here that surely anyone will know whether they are going to enjoy them or not and can make a rational decision not to bother reading them ?

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Its my perogative to head them under any name i choose to.!

Is it not Kenty’s prerogative then to comment on what, it appears, she considers a cowardly practise.

@coathanger wrote:

If you don’t like them, or think I’m being unfair don’t read them. Simples !

.. could easily be turned back on you – “If you don’t like some of the…[Read more]

Good post Malley…..did I tell you, you look gorgeous today? :lol:

Doesn’t matter if you told me – tell me again.. I can never hear that enough!! :P I do tend to look my best in type though, whilst your pic matches your general loveliness :)

I’m reminded of a childhood friend who, around the age of 8, reeled off a list of other neighbourhood kids he disliked. His mother pulled him on it:

“Anthony, it’s unrealistic to think everybody…[Read more]

hey omalley fancy a picture contest?

Sure. I’ll take a picture. You have as many guesses as you like as to the subject matter of said pic. If a guess is greeted by complete silence on my part, take that to mean your guess was incorrect. Closing date for entries is a Wednesday a couple of years from now.

You silly tart… :lol:

Aww, I’m only a bit silly :lol:

…personally I think it is nice to put a face to a name….I often imagine the chatters totally different to how they actually are….just saying….nothing negative about that its just we all have a perception of others and in our minds eye we imagine what they look like

I did think about posting my pic, but then decided…[Read more]