A Day In The Life Of …………….

Maybe if all those pmers were active on the boards instead of sticking to pm then the boards would have more variety. Although the chances are it would just be more bitchiness…

@coathanger wrote:

He is infact a bully.

nah Kenty’s right he’s a twat (cmon lets see that thread post count soar)

He is though

@coathanger wrote:

I take your point Jen, thing is i did explain in 1st reply why people pm’d me and wished to remain anon, unlike the other stories, I agree this was a different genre and I will explain why.
Scep said in an earlier post that he feels ‘the subject’ the tale was aimed at, should be called to task, face to face ( so to speak ) in room, rather than on the boards ( although theres nothing to stop him posting here should he so wish). Scep obviously knows less about the person than he realises, as it is impossible to ‘call him out’ or show any disapproval of him in room ( and I’m not talking about kentys style of admonishment, ” nita stop being a tw@t lolol ”), he’s loud, goes off the deep end and if he can’t come up with a decent answer he resorts to name calling of the worst kind then letting the room know he has put his opponant on ignore. After this he constantly digs at people everytime they come in room, insulting them in nasty and personal ways. He is infact a bully.
Well, unfortunatly you can’t reason with childish bullies, and maybe I am lowering myself to his level in some ways, however, for all the ladies ( its mainly ladies, the odd bloke ) who he bullies and ruins their chat, I have to say…. IT FELT GOOD.
Sorry if you don’t like it. Glad I did it though.

I felt the same about this “story” as I have about all the others.

It is a shame when people lower themselves to the level of those they despise though, no one wins then. So he puts his “opponent” on ignore, big deal. He can only bully those that allow him to bully them. Unlike real life, we have the ignore facility and the off button. If people really don’t want to read his type then all they have to do is use it and judging by the number of pms you claim to have received, he will soon be starved of the attention he craves. Of course, very few will do that as they’re afraid to miss anything and so the cycle continues.

Bully, twat, whatever, starve them of the attention they crave instead of feeding them, which is exactly what you’ve done with your story. Never mind, it made you feel good…

It was you who suggested that you may be lowering yourself to his level, I simply followed that on. As for Utopia and no need to oust bullies, of course there’s a need to oust them but it’s by ignoring them, starving them of the attention they crave and effectively disempowering them that you oust them. No dramatics from me, no loss of perspective, just some observations.

Sorry to not be applauding you and telling you how wonderful you are for taking on the big bad bully on behalf of all the ladies (and if that’s dramatic remember that those are your words, paraphrased, not mine) but I make no secret of the fact that I don’t like your stories, no matter who they are aimed at or the intent behind them. Not a problem to me though, I don’t expect to like everything on the boards and I’m sure you have enough fans who hang on your every word for my opinion to be of no consequence.

@coathanger wrote:

..unless his dad really did run off with a 1 eyed dwarf from accrington…

Probably not, but mine did. I’m now having flashbacks!

@coathanger wrote:

At the risk of annoying Mr Cat, I really am getting tired of the dramatics.

If dramatics bore you, you might want to reconsider where you choose to hang out.. ‘cos they kinda go with the territory dontcha think? :)

Like I’ve said before, all this stuff comes down to perception. If people have seen the subject acting in a vile manner, then they’ll likely respond to your story with a “Good on ya!”. If they’ve not seen such behaviour – or have seen it but believe it to have been in response to provocation – then they’re probably going to spring to his defence.

I have to admit, there are times where I’ve chatted to individuals for months before suddenly seeing a whole new, much less appealing, side to them. It can be difficult to reconcile the idea you have of a person with what you witness when that happens.

Course.. it’s much easier when the ‘baddies’ are ‘bad’ all the time. Much more difficult when they know how to appear good.. or even charming.