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@martini-mix wrote:
i married my childhood sweetheart and was married 20 years and was never unfaithful and would never have even dreamed of being, i hadnt the time or inclination too busy bringing my 2 chilldren up, then he rocked my world and went off with my best friend. I have a big big issue with trust i trust no one. I lost my husband and best friend in one swoop. It took me 10 years to speak to him again. I know the pain of infedelity first hand , you never ever get over it …only learn to live with it like death almost.
On reflection perhaps infidelity was the wrong choice of title, perhaps another title would have been more appropriate, mainly because i dont think im advocating infidelity as such, more like if its broken then recognise it and remember that you count too? Im probably not putting this very well but i think you may get the gist of it.
@nemesis wrote:
Sure I get that, but it`s never simple, there are sometimes other people to consider…. children. They may be a shyte spouse but brilliant parent, and if things are bearable at home then isn`t it selfish to chase your own desires?
That said, who would deny a chance of happiness?sounds like to me tho nem that the last ‘candle’ hasnt been blown out, theres a difference hun, the last ‘candle’ for me was blown out more than once but i was too blind to see it, oh of course folk should try, im not about just jumping ship the first or the second time of trouble what i am saying after trying, weighing it up etc etc then make the decision, what i am onna bout is folk living togehter when theres no hope, just for family ad kids, but, at the same time just because i have an opinion, it doesnt necessarily mean its the right one, funny lil human beings we are hun, its personal choice and free will , no one , but no one should dictate what another does, oh apart from the legalities lol, u know what i mean, each case is unique, each person is unique, im not advocating everyone who is unhappy should split, im just saying, take a long hard look and do whats right for you xxxx
@nemesis wrote:
Cath, you never cease to amaze me, I adore you, you are a wonderful woman xx
I think you hit the nail on the head with your post, and for me it meant a lot :)
life nemesis is not easy , no one said it would be, thing is, we make so many mistakes and its take me 61 years to realise that sometimes its not so bad if a person thinks of themselves once in a while, misguided loyalties can be so soul destroying, at the same time neither am i advocating that folk ‘jump’ at the first sign of probs, of course some things can be worked out, what i am saying tho is dont be so quick to judge and , if the last candle for thoe other person in your life has truly gone out , then do something if you can, its your life at the end of the day.
banjaxed!!!
i love that word lol x
this is for someone who loves frogs i think lol
i had a parking ticket a few years ago, i got back to my car about 15 mins late and there was the traffic warden writing a ticket grrrr , anyway i got in my car, started it and went to drive off, he stood in front of me so i couldnt drive away (yes i was tempted lol) i was parked against a wall so couldnt reverse either . so i had to wait for the ticket which he stuck to the windscreen so i had to get out and get it. i had asked him to get out of the way , i was very polite but he stood firm along with a very nasty tone of voice tuts.
i was so cross with his attitude that i wrote to the council and said what the traffic warden had done was tantamount to holding me hostage and i was very upset about it blah blah lol and i got away with it!!! phew!!
thing is , dont know if you ever watched the sort of ‘spy on the wall’ programme that ran for weeks a few years ago about traffic wardens? they have a target of how many tickets they are supposed to write out. so they have their targets too.
@mrs_teapot wrote:
OK here is the question:
If you had the chance and if you were sure no one would ever know, and if you were sure there would be no consequences would you have sex with another woman/man?
Difficult one huh?
Teapot
:-kno is my answer, basically because it would be just sex for sex sake in those circumstances
@kent f OBE wrote:
I’ll bring my swarovski crystal tweezerman tweezers they are the bees knees!! But no one can touch them cept me :lol:
I don’t like chinese….don’t want Indian so I’ll share a pizza with Martini ….and I would like a choccie cheesecake :lol:i make a great baileys chocolate cheesecake kenty :D
a girly met would be great , i have met a few from here, thing is i dont know about anyone else but somewhere central for everyone maybe just a drink and a natter but all arrangements kept in pm maybe? maybe in the new year sometime lol *waves to rubes * how u doing lass? xxxxx
hey chef, sometimes there are so many posts that we miss some, please dont take it too heart xxxx
