@lolly wrote:
I agree wholeheartedly it is easier to give advice and be emotionally adult when it comes to other people, i feel the reason we cannot council ourselves so easily is because we no longer use our heads, we use our emotions and our family of origin dictates our reactions and behaviour, even though intellectually we can reason this our raw emotions are so deep they determine outcomes.
letting our masks slip – sadly when you have lived a bit of life you are not so ready to bare your soul to all, defence mechanisms set in and no amount of words can replace actions and the steady trust built which only time can do; some succeed with this and some just cant.
We are all human beings and in the grand scheme of the universe pretty insignificant i dont doubt.
flippin heck all a bit heavy me thinks….. maybe we should start a psychology thread!! you and me cath putting the world to rights!!! i’ll make the tea you bring the cakes xxxx
lol xxx i reckon, or i suspect you have ‘seen’ as much life as i have , i might be holding on to the thought there is a rainbow out there for me somewhere but i also know to even see a rain bow let alone get hold of one you need a little (or in my case a monsoon) rain in yer life first ay? but life has a habit of sometimes, just sometimes giving you a glimpse of that rainbow ay? xxx