but surely you have to know someone for real to make such statements? and if what i type upsets you, the namechanger then i suggest you dont read anything with my name on it, simples…….. like you…
i went to a bbq at my son’s today, watching his two little girls playing in the sunshine, now that made me smile, so did the fact i tried my best to explain i couldnt crawl into their playhouse because of pain in my joints today, but tried anyways lol made them laugh when they had to help me to my feet.
also. seeing my name mentioned so often when i haven’t even been here, now that makes me smile too. i’m really not worthy of the attention you know, im just an ordinary 58 yr old grandma who loves her grandkids to pieces.
couldnt sleep. so having a cuppa then ill try again.
i have noticed something. and i guess as the saying goes…. better out than in. oh. thats wind isnt it, well never mind.
it appears that just my name being on here or in chat is now considered goading. even though i dont speak to said person, or allude anything toward said person. there is nothing i can do about that if in said persons head she sees people speaking to me in chat she considers my only thought is said person, that is said persons imagination and not fact surely?
does it mean that only said person is an “alcy” ( a word i have never used in chat) or is it because i am tea-total for the most part and only imbibe on rare special occasions? and there is in fact a type of jealousy that i can handle myself? without the need to keep calling others horrible names like who re and the like?
i like a giggle yeah course i do, but if someone would spend time in chat just watching me (and i dont mean said person) they would see i have not an ounce of malice in my chat words.
tonight was a good example.
dezbolten – used the “c” word to describe himself. i replied to that because it was in a public chatroom with – and i quote “but they’re useful dez youre not” the reply i got i considered uncalled for and very very personal. basically alluding that i was a prostitute and that even my father and brother had had me – did i react? no……. what’s the point, if its banter i’ll reply, to personal insult i refuse to. i put him quietly on ignore.
so, taking all this drivel i have written into consideration, would you say i am a mean and nasty person who picks at people? or is it more likely someone has decided they cannot even stand my name being seen and has to make up in their heads that i have done this that and the other?
going to finish my cup of tea now and then try sleeping again.
only got to third line of last post, not reading any more of it.
lets get 2 things straight shall we?
1. i dont ignore people UNLESS theyre abusive toward me.
2. you say you don’t lie?? well youre lying about the getting naked bit aren’t you? you sent me the bloody photos and swore me to secrecy, i don’t think i owe you that anymore Moon.
considering the utter poo i’ve taken from you unwarrentedly.
that is all i have to say. don’t bite at me i will eventually bite back but only ever with facts