@minim wrote:
Bullying takes many forms. Spreading rumours that are not true is just one way of bullying. Spreading rumours you think may be true, but probably aren’t, but you feel like spreading them anyway because you don’t like the person the rumours are about, now that is truly scum behaviour.
Anc….I don’t know you very well, if at all, but turning this thread into a dig at Kenty is pretty low. And who gives a flying f cuk who slept with who and when? I really don’t get why people are so interested in others’ sex lives. Bottom line is, that they probably aren’t interested at all, its just another way to try and have a go and upset someone.
Bullying DOES take many forms. Making assumptions is just as bad as spreading rumours. Using the weight of popularity is just as nasty as so-called rumour spreading. Making this thread into ANYTHING other than bullying turns this whole debate and the reason for my original posting a mockery.
Having read the last few comments … I find it is just as much about turning the thread into a dig at Anc, as much as a dig at Kenty. I happen to like both. Let’s not turn this into a slanging match … please.
Simply calling someone else a bully does not detract from being a bully yourself.
Favouring one person’s word over another’s when we are not privy to the whole facts at first hand, is just as intimidating and equally powerful. Lending weight to one argument supports and perpetuates the nastiness.
May I just take this opportunity to thank, genuinely and sincerely, all those people who were kind enough to post on here and also the gestures of friendship extended privately too.
Thank you. I WILL be back Trust me … (eventually, lol!)
Suzanne x