[cath 55]

@thin ice wrote:

@cath 55 wrote:

Thing is about a ‘faceless’ message board or chat room, some people just are not themselves, they say things they wouldt say to to someones face, dont know what it is, but, the internet allows them to say what they wnat almost, be who they want to be, allow their own thoughts and bitterness/bad experiences to come out whereas mabe in real life they dont have a ‘let out area’

I like to think im me whether im in chat/message boards wherever really.

I dont like bi tching, or any sort of conflict here or in the real world but, i will however stand up for myself or anyone else i think its being badly treated.

banter is fine, bit ching and character assasination is not, bit ching is a form of bullying, no ways round it really, cheeky banter is another matter.

you raise some good points cath but where does the line stop
and are you sure every time you cross it

I think the line should stop at character assassination, especially when we dont know the person that well? thing is that all of us can run with the pack, I stopped running with the pack one day in a job I was in, having ciggy break outside the building there was a group of women who constantly bit ched about someone in our department, course i knew women who b itched like that wer e sure to pick on anyone including anyone in there, i happen to say one day that it made me feel uncomfortable sl agging off this person and in general and they never, not one of them, ever spoke to me for the remaining 6 months i stayed at that job!!

I am a firm beleiver and do try, not always sucessfully, to treat folk like i would like to be treated, im no saint , i have had my rucks in my time , i have my ‘enemies’ on here just like anyone else but the mere sound of ‘enemies’ online sounds rather comical too lol.

freindly banter, up to cheeky i guess, but, there are of course some who dive in no matter what but can dish it out as much as give it lol.

[cath 55]

Thing is about a ‘faceless’ message board or chat room, some people just are not themselves, they say things they wouldt say to to someones face, dont know what it is, but, the internet allows them to say what they wnat almost, be who they want to be, allow their own thoughts and bitterness/bad experiences to come out whereas mabe in real life they dont have a ‘let out area’

I like to think im me whether im in chat/message boards wherever really.

I dont like bi tching, or any sort of conflict here or in the real world but, i will however stand up for myself or anyone else i think its being badly treated.

banter is fine, bit ching and character assasination is not, bit ching is a form of bullying, no ways round it really, cheeky banter is another matter.

[cath 55]

happiness is the nurofen plus taking the edge off the pain of the headache from hell 8)

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have a great day boogaloo xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

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waves to bon bon cooooooeeeeeeeeeeeee lol xxxxxxxxxxx

[cath 55]

@thin ice wrote:

make alownces for people in difficult situations

you know what thin, that is a good thought x

[cath 55]

It is one thing to tolerate someone’s mistake. It is something even greater to forgive the mistake.

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@thin ice wrote:

@annette-curtain wrote:

@thin ice wrote:

@wakeupdeadisgodlike wrote:

People asked to see this dross?

had similar thoughts wake up but i was too nice to take a pop at a man who clearly has serious issues :P :lol: :P

Fgs .. Shame on you . Paul is fairly new here there is no need for that at all [-X … and quite frankly , if anyone has serious issues , i would say it is You Thin . :roll:

annette save your fake morality
cus you have the morals of a sewer rat

actually i think never judge till you have walked a mile in a persons shoes is good here, i personally have found annette a good loyal freind , and, she is one of the ones on here that i would trust absolutely 100% , thats a big thing for me

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@thin ice wrote:

for the record i wasnt actually having a go at paul
but i think he has been very foolish to post so much personal information about him self on here
it will only be a matter of time before some one like quench or some other random name changer will be shoving it at him in the room

ok , thin actually maybe right, Paul actually is a good blokey, and a genuine one as far as i can tell, he has a lot of life stuff going on at the mo and has decided to share that with folk, i for one am ok with it, i like paul xx

and ok for the record, i think thin is a bit of a buga for stirring it but, he also doesnt take in other stirrers comments without taking the time to find out from the source it is about if its true and for that i have to say respect thin x

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@rubyred wrote:

ED. promise all ya have and bless ye. I wanted and voted ye.

ignorance is bliss.. and lassie I miss ye x

me too rubes xx

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