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If someone like myself, who is for the most part confident and outspoken and who takes no crap from anyone can unwittingly become a victim of this, then anyone can.
When I told my family and friends what was happening they were for the most part not surprised as they had seen hints of what was happening, however what none of them could understand is how it had happened to me, for the reasons I stated above, but somehow when faced with a manipulative individual its not as clear cut as you might think it to be.
Masky thanks for sharing your story. x
I am still trying to work that one out, but soon after she began using the name Sugarlips she passed some smartarse comment at me in chat about ‘knowing more about me than I realised’ and that she was not a newbie – therefore implying that she had previously been someone else. Lots of chatters reinvent themselves. Lets hope her next chat incarnation will be something with a better personality huh?
@cherriepie wrote:
@mrs_teapot wrote:
hello young people :D
I just read through this thread….. so sorry for sugar.. obviously her life is not good. There again which of us has a perfect life?… I hope she finds peace and is not too upset to have been “found out” I wish you would all say come back all is forgiven… I suspect it isn’t though… oh well :?
Cherrie do you know what happened to Gaz?
I miss disagreeing with him :D
Why would we ask someone who lied about something so unnecessary to come back? Anyway, Sugar or whoever that person is can come back to Jc, we don’t own Jc or have the right to say who can and can’t chat here. There is nothing to forgive because they did nothing to directly impact me. I really don’t hold anything against this person.. well because I was fortunate enough not to know them apart from the hello in chat.
Anyway, as for Gaz, how am I meant to know!?? D:
Am sure he is just fine and dandy :)Sugar used to chat in another regular name but she never revealed this, so I am assuming she is probably already back in chat as someone else. Who cares. She is a sad individual whatever name she uses and no doubt we will see through that one too.
It was new years 2008/09, and I could just not get myself into the party spirit no matter how much I tried. I had this overwhelming feeling that 2009 would be a bad year. I had bad feelings about losing my Dad, which at the time were unfounded as he seemed fit and well and was only in his 60s. I also knew that it would be the year my Gran was going to die as she had terminal lung cancer at that stage. No matter how much I tried to join in the party, the feeling of dread for the year to come kept on coming, and I didn’t want to see the new year in.
In Feb 09 my dad passed away only a couple of weeks after diagnosis of his cancer. My gran passed away in July 09.The feelings I had turned out to be right.
Bah humbug and all that but I think christmas cards are farcical!
Everyone moans about having to write them, everyone worries they might offend someone by not returning their gesture. Some people we send them to we might not have even spoken to in years. They cost a fortune to post. We just toss them into a card holder and then have the whole environmental issue to deal with afterwards.
Yes… I wouldn’t care if I never got another christmas card… they just clutter and collect dust and to be honest would much rather see the sender and go for a christmas bevvie or 3 with them! Cheers and merry christmas
Eva the very fact that we’ve both spoken out means we are strong. Trolls are those who will take people’s life circumstances and try to belittle them for it. We need look no further than this forum for that.
Everyone has a history, everyone has life issues to deal with at some point (and I’ve had more than my share) and unfortunately sometimes the more you deal with the more life throws at you. This is what makes people strong.It’s interesting to note that those with ‘perfect’ relationships use chat rooms into the early hours of the night. Makes you wonder!
I only left because my mum threw me a lifeline. I had no where to go otherwise. Sorry you’ve experienced it too Eva. Onwards and upwards!
Blossom, after this I will have nothing more to add as I question if this us just another game to you.
Unfortunately spending 40 nights sleeping on my mums floor with my 2 children after fleeing domestic abuse was not a game to me.
I grew up in a middle class family, no issues, had a private education, no drunkards or violence in my family and have a stable mental state.
I shrug off your comments now as those of someone wanting to create a stir. I see you’ve now moved to commenting on twitter about ppl in jcs mentality. It’s obviously just fun for you.
I pity you Blossom and hope you never have to walk a day in someone else’s shoes.
I also question your sincere lack of compassion.Emotional abuse isn’t just words!
And for the record I am a strong, well balanced and sane individual but I have been there. With respect Blossom – You know nothing.
Christmas is the time of year when there are the highest number of relationship break downs, abuse etc, all down to everyone being thrown together for a longer period of time as ppl are off work and also the stress, financial strain etc that christmas brings…
So with that in mind… Happy Christmas everyone
