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Mines an experience not an opinion.
@blossom‘ wrote:
Melody….I don’t want to seem categorical, but I still stand by my opinion…..sorry.
Abuse has a profound effect on someone only if this someone is already mentally fragile at the time of the abuse, otherwise the effect is none.
Life is simple, we make it complicated.
Utter tosh!
I actually believe that physical violence is easier to handle than emotional abuse. You get a beating and then its done, you can maybe hit back if you are strong, your wounds will heal. If someone chips away at your self esteem – and sometimes you don’t even realise that they are doing it until you stop and look back and see what was happening – on a daily basis, constantly checking up on your every move, commenting on things you don’t ask for an opinion on, telling you you are a worthless piece of crap coz you ‘hung the toilet roll on the holder the wrong way’, financially stripping your assets, undermining you… I could continue…
Anyway… if someone is chipping away at you, even the strongest person will weaken eventually. You don’t have to be a silly pathetic little woman or man to be a victim of this.
It’s brainless to judge as you have just judged in your posts, and say that there is a difference. There is NO difference. Abuse is abuse, albeit physical, emotional, financial, sexual… it is Abuse and if its had a profound effect on someones life then it shouldn’t be allowed to go unnoticed.I partially agree with Des. I think there has to be some sort of guidance in play with this.
Sometimes people are too proud, have no where to turn or are afraid to get out of the situation they are in, its ridiculous to imply someone can just up and off at the first sign of being abused. If only life was so simple.
Get Real!
Blossom… you don’t know what the F**K you are talking about.
If there is a sucessful way to prosecute them it should happen.
I am in the christmas spirit too. I just recorded and posted a rendition of ‘Santa Baby’ on my facebook and tried to on twitter but it won’t upload..
(Bleeding ears)
Am going to get her a date with Robster… the sexual tension on twitter between them both is brilliant! :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:
Very generous and now wishing I had joined the quiz earlier in the year and then not took a few months off too! Darn!
Well done though Lily it looks like you have a lovely voucher coming your way.
I think people might start and take it even more seriously now! Oh heck!
Haha when I first read this I thought it was going to be a fat heffer…
RELIEF!
Time to change my avatar I think hahaha
1) What do you have for breakfast on christmas day? ….thorntons chocs and some bubbles
2) What main present do you hope santa puts in his sack for you? ……a bracelet
3) Who are you spending christmas with? ……bf, daughters, and rest of family
4) Will you be online on christmas day? lol …..hell NO
5) Have you got much left to buy for christmas? ….nope all wrapped too
6) What is your best christmas memory? ….any with my dad and grandparents in
7) Do you still have an advent calendar? ….nope
8 >How many christmas parties are you going to? …..1 i finks so far
9) What is your favourite christmas movie? …..a wonderful life or digby!
10) What is your favourite christmas carol? ….little donkey
11) Who from chat would you like to kiss under the mistletoe? …..i’d give pasty and jaqw a peck on the cheek
12) Which famous person would you have christmas dinner with if you could? …..jamie oliver… he can get his a r s e in the kitchen
13) When do you put your decs up? ….1st weekend in dec
14) Who cooks your christmas dinner? varies… this year i am poisoning everyone
15) Trifle or christmas pud? Trifle! MMM with sherry
