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But then you’re lack of trust has to be genuine not paranoia I think you have to have reason not to trust them
But is it not possible to build the trust up again??
@pete wrote:
But then you’re lack of trust has to be genuine not paranoia I think you have to have reason not to trust them
You mean they have to have actually gone out and had sexual encounters in some way?
It’s possible if you can forgive i guess but only the once whatever it was cant happen twice
@cass_2000 wrote:
@pete wrote:
But then you’re lack of trust has to be genuine not paranoia I think you have to have reason not to trust them
You mean they have to have actually gone out and had sexual encounters in some way?
Could be anything not just sex and they dont have actually had to have slept together to break someones trust
@pete wrote:
But then you’re lack of trust has to be genuine not paranoia I think you have to have reason not to trust them
I disagree Pete, if you don’t have trust, for whatever reason, then you have shaky foundations.
Cas it is possible to rebuild the trust, but it takes work on both sides, the person who has lost the trust has to be prepared to forgive, the other person has to be prepared to give all the reassurance that is needed in whatever form it is needed – one person can’t rebuild it alone.
As someone said if a party finds the partners flirting difficult or uncomfortable then no it shouldnt be done if they love that person they would stop out of respect for them if they cant even do that then i’d say no there really isnt a solid enough foundation to build on in the first place, they obviously dont truly love the person.
Like jen said i think flirting is harmless and if you are both comfortable with it it isnt aproblem but if even one of you are uncomfortable it should stop, as i said if they cant and wont they dont love them no, they just want to stay with them because they can its a control thing not love.What if the person had claimed to be single to others, and arranged to meet them but had been found out before they had chance to follow through.. would you consider that reason pete?
@cass_2000 wrote:
What if the person had claimed to be single to others, and arranged to meet them but had been found out before they had chance to follow through.. would you consider that reason pete?
Oh that’s a biiiiiiig reason!
@jen_jen wrote:
@cass_2000 wrote:
What if the person had claimed to be single to others, and arranged to meet them but had been found out before they had chance to follow through.. would you consider that reason pete?
Oh that’s a biiiiiiig reason!
What if they claim they was never actually going to follow through with it?
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