I do agree with u to an extent soulie hun…..no one should try and change another…..but even from my own personal point of view my relationship changed somewot with my hubby cos I was spending all of my time online…….not that he minded or ever told me to stop, but I realised that I wasn’t really being fair……in a relationship you have to compromise and do things that you dont always want to do….that’s the name of the game……and if I had to choose between my husband and the internet, then I’m afraid my husband would win everytime…..I’m not sayin I haven’t made some wonderful friends on here…..but you have to ask yourself wot’s really important and wot your priorities are in ur life, i don’t no the whole story with gemz and scott and i dont wanna no, it’s none of my business, i just wish the girl happiness that’s all, we all deserve to be happy in life :) xx