My personal reflection of just chat is:
I’ve chatted to some wonderful people, a few morons, thousands of name changing plonkers. made some new friends, had some funny chats with some people who change names for a giggle, friendly banter. Hung on to some very good friends,
And found a new friend who has helped me loads over the last couple of months and for that i want to thank Mario for ignoring the idiots whohave caused shyte and grief. i hope you have a brill christmas and start saving ya penny’s because this meal is gonna cost ya ,me, puds , soul, born and tracy are looking forward to it.
so to all the chatters of justchat i wish to say please remember self-confidence isn’t about stepping on other peoples thoughts feelings emotions, in reality its about working hard for what you want, and knowing when to stand up for what you deserve. Its not about demoralizing others; its about self-empowerment. Its not about being arrogant; its about displaying your confidence Its not asserting any inherent superiority or self-entitlement, but recognizing your own self-worth and value. People can only treat me as badly as i allow them to If you’re not being treated with love & respect, recheck your value, Perhaps you have allowed others to put you down and not put in the time and effort with you.
It’s YOU who tells people what you’re worth by what you accept from them, LEARN to value yourself more! If you don’t, no one else will. Time is our most precious gift, we all have a set amount of it. Time is our life. That is why the greatest gift you can give someone is your time, but time is also a great teacher and unfortunately it kills all it’s pupils. Use it wisely dont waste it. and if you cant say something nice say nothing. think before you type and try butting your brian in gear before putting typing fingers in to action, and use ignore much more, more and if you cant do any of the above and want to fight and rip each other to pieces maybe click the top link and have a listen to the words im qute positive those fighting for hat ever reason would much rather be sat at home withfamily friends having a giggle.
if you are stuck for things to give this year as Christmas gifts here are a few suggestions,
To a passerby on the street, A Smile.
To your enemy, Forgiveness.
To an opponent, Tolerance.
To all, Charity.
To every child, a good Example.
To family and close friends, Your time.
To someone special, your Heart
To yourself, Respect
Finally If ya going out to drink over the festive season dont be a fool and drink and drive,drinking n driving dont mix so leave ya keys at home grab a taxi it wont kill you and might save other inocent people take care Remember, it’s not only a cars that can be recalled by it’s maker.I will be thinking of all those who for whatever reason won’t be spending time with their loved ones, whether through bereavement, illness, conflict, work, social circumstance or relationship breakdown…here is to things being as bearable as possible x xx