just to make myself clear: You don’t have to tell me how short life is!!! I don’t have the time to listen onther people telling me how foolish I am :?
and my relationship to my mother is getting better… she starting to let me live my own life – finally!
BBlue…. when your older and have kids… you’ll apprectiate you own mother more..!!! believe me.. I gave my mam such a hard time growin up… to the point where guilt now lies in my path..! its easy to bite the bullet and say your sorrys…. your mum will probaly be only lookin out for U… at the end of the day she will be the best friend u’ve ever had and will ever have…. but sadly u don’t realise that when younger..!
but you’ll look back and think JMMOG… that MJ was right… lol
well… first of all I will never ever want to have kids. Life’s too short to be wasted on them :roll:
and I know my mom loves me and only wishes the best for me. But WHY does she have to be so bloody stupid!?!? why?! she doesn’t have all the answers, she doesn’t know everything and first of all: SHE DOESN’T KNOW ME!!! :x just because she’s seen me growing up doesn’t mean she has any idea who I am… and she cruelly left me alone when I needed some one to help me through the hard times in my life. And I will never forget the time when she looked at me straight in the eye and said: “I think you are a fool” :evil:
she loves me only because I’m her daughter (she kind of has to) but as person… she doesn’t even like me. :?
Oh BBlue….. re-read what you typed…!! why you say… well maybe if you start will actually airing your feelings to your mother. When I read you post. ( in a mother eyes ) I was very disheartned. Yet it was very familiar.. think ive have said these words myself at some point about my Mother. You Mother can’t help you if she doesnt know theirs a problem. She will just presume its the chip on your shoulder that children get towards their parents. She is not a mind reader, if you actually spoke with her, or even pen’ed a letter to her atleast she will know YOUR feelings, then try to guide you.
I think you should be very lucky like myself we both have our Mothers. sadly not all are so fortunate….
erm… no
I don’t hate her, but I still mean what I wrote.
She called me a fool and hasn’t taken it back. I don’t have to take that [-(
BBlue…. when your older and have kids… you’ll apprectiate you own mother more..!!! believe me.. I gave my mam such a hard time growin up… to the point where guilt now lies in my path..! its easy to bite the bullet and say your sorrys…. your mum will probaly be only lookin out for U… at the end of the day she will be the best friend u’ve ever had and will ever have…. but sadly u don’t realise that when younger..!
but you’ll look back and think JMMOG… that MJ was right… lol
well… first of all I will never ever want to have kids. Life’s too short to be wasted on them :roll:
and I know my mom loves me and only wishes the best for me. But WHY does she have to be so bloody stupid!?!? why?! she doesn’t have all the answers, she doesn’t know everything and first of all: SHE DOESN’T KNOW ME!!! :x just because she’s seen me growing up doesn’t mean she has any idea who I am… and she cruelly left me alone when I needed some one to help me through the hard times in my life. And I will never forget the time when she looked at me straight in the eye and said: “I think you are a fool” :evil:
she loves me only because I’m her daughter (she kind of has to) but as person… she doesn’t even like me. :?