@matty wrote:
but its so frustrating when i ask the question
so… what sort of music are you into?
and they say…. anything
With all due respect, it is a bit of an uninspired question. If you asked me that question, I would probably reply the same. I like most music but am not particulaly passionate about a specific type.
Clubs are a nightmare for chatting women up. The chances of bumping into anyone who is able to hold a coversation at a club due to the noise or otherwise is pretty slim. Why not join a society or club. You will meet lots of women, they are likely to share a common interest and you are not competing against a load of drunk lads and 100db of music.
Ideas = salsa, jive, am dram, walking, sports clubs – badminton / squash you name it!