My entire family, including my daughter , my ex and all my friends know that I use JC. Why should they not? Its a chat room, not a drug habit.
as to the pms, i do get annoyed when im asked ” does your partner/husband/keeper/jailer etd know that u chat?” . Or, if i say am separated ” o yea, i suppose he got psd off with u using a chat site”.
I think the problem lies in the minds of the ppl who think its a problem.