My mum comes from a large family but when she was alive she lost contact with them as they never got on. My dad’s family still get on great 8) I myself have four brothers, two of whom I love to bits. The other two can go whistle, for reasons I wont go into.
We never have arguments but I prefer to cut them out of my life since they never brought anything good and positive into it. All they brought was shame, hurt, anger, disappointment and disloyalty.
My kids get on brilliant and I hope this never changes [-o<