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Hiya pol x in an ideal world we should all be able to breathe without lackeys. I see cosy has jumped ship to avoid the horrible chat hosts on here :) I was not keen on the entire thread,as i said. It brought out parts of generally nice people, that i did not wish to view,, as they are worth FAR more than that in their individual, own rights. But Que sera. Certain elements jumped on bandwagon, that was already gone..They saw the lights in the distance of something that was so easilly forgetabble. Like an old Romany caravan they clung on with the pots n pans..
Hell i like my pesonal bandwagons fresh…
/whip crack away. Dundee . x
@cosy.m wrote:
seeing as we wont be seeing each other on the boards or chat again eve,nice avator
oh dear.. :lol: sorry to see you go cosy.. But i feel it fair to inform you that the ones you complain of are regs over there, and jolly nice people too. but on ye go.
I am perfectly aware of ” all that glitters etc”.. Please do not look for politics where they are not there.. I would rather SAVE a child. and i can say , hand on heart that if i thought any bairn out there was being abused, i would be the first to interfere. What is the alternative..? Do not let young mothers know that the”ideal man” they met is gonna win prizes from a Daddies sauce bottle ?
its not a simple case of grassing..its to keep children safe. YES there are Hundreds upon hundreds of good. loving stepfathers out there.. but while the jealous control freaks lurk, we have to be on our guards> there is far more to abuse, than a bruise.
/tuts.. this is NOT a common and Garden CRB… its to let Young parents know if the new person In their childrens life have previous for abusing children from a nip to sexual abuse.
see if his makes any sense to you melody..
no,, this is a new thing Melody.. IF he had committed an offence before they would have to tell the person that initially inquired. You are right in sayin they rarely get caught. But in the case study Of the wee boy i mentioned IF the mother would have asked these days she would have been told he has previous. its not a maliceous persons agenda.. ya just dont call up for this Info,, what with data protection etc.. Will see if i can find out more.
@mrs_teapot wrote:
@rubyred wrote:
yeah I saw both the stories cath And Yvonne are speaking of.. in both cases the “boy” friend.. There is a new thing up here, it is being piloted here in Dundee for the Scottish..My daugter came home with all the leaflets they were automatically given if you child is at nursery..
basically…say hypothetically.. your daughter met a new Lad in life..well she an now check up and see if he has form for any kind of abuse. Ifs its the worried grandparent,, they canask for a check up, and while thy wont be told anything, it will at least be looked into. An no i am not being sexist, im sure the same applies to single parent young fathers.I do not know how successful this has been so far.But there are to damm many cases of the so called ” stepfathers” doing this shyt..
We had a big case up here last year about a wee boy, brandon Muir who was slowly and sytematically killed by some junkie,, he did it with previous lasses and their babies.But Brandon was sngled out as he was a live wire,and they dont like THAT..kicked in the stomach till he was coughing up blood, then taken to a party and propped up against a toilet bowl,, while Dundee lowlifes partied on around him,, and laughed at his sunken eyes..
here’s hoping this new Law helps.. but alas….Gosh Ruby, this may sound like cowardice but I prefer not to know about terrible cases like this. If I think too deeply about it I cannot sleep, I know it happens and like everyone else I contribute to the various childrens charities but I sort of think me knowing about it and losing sleep doesnt help anyone. Does not mean I do not care, does that make sense? Oh well its how I cope with it.
Teapot
sorry mrs Tepot.. I purposely missed out the main parts.. just hope this nrw law works.
yeah I saw both the stories cath And Yvonne are speaking of.. in both cases the “boy” friend.. There is a new thing up here, it is being piloted here in Dundee for the Scottish..My daugter came home with all the leaflets they were automatically given if you child is at nursery..
basically…say hypothetically.. your daughter met a new Lad in life..well she an now check up and see if he has form for any kind of abuse. Ifs its the worried grandparent,, they canask for a check up, and while thy wont be told anything, it will at least be looked into. An no i am not being sexist, im sure the same applies to single parent young fathers.I do not know how successful this has been so far.But there are to damm many cases of the so called ” stepfathers” doing this shyt..
We had a big case up here last year about a wee boy, brandon Muir who was slowly and sytematically killed by some junkie,, he did it with previous lasses and their babies.But Brandon was sngled out as he was a live wire,and they dont like THAT..kicked in the stomach till he was coughing up blood, then taken to a party and propped up against a toilet bowl,, while Dundee lowlifes partied on around him,, and laughed at his sunken eyes..
here’s hoping this new Law helps.. but alas….oh no and here was me thinking you were a yorkshire lass :) I actually love accents too, though i tend to mimic them after a few minutes. Whilst working in a Hotel In London many years ago i picked up a german accent ! As the fascist boss had an agent in germany.. So it was all school kids of 17/18… The actress Joanne whalley has it too ( not the german boys,, the mimic thing). can be a bit ofa pain at times as sometimes folks think im taking the micky.. as IF i would do that ;)
Tomorrow I am in full Newport Pagnell accent mode !
neon bliddy wands at a Sabbath gig!! I forgot about those glow in the dark thingys actually.. Least they will stop me burning my eyebrows off when i headbang :)
