see i get disgusted by that too…I WOULD never knowingly have a relationship with a married man ! some women get off on the fact,but defo NOT me ! Im at an age,when i have a laugh with a bloke in a pub ( for instance) ,but soon as he mentions the wife,i feel the shutters coming down,upon the conversation.
Im all for a laugh,as ya know Sian,and its damm hard as the men out there DO want me :) Id feel like i was letting another woman down if I went off with her man,,no matter WHAT shyte they tell themselves. I know of females that do it too,been in bad relationships and see it as their RIGHT to try and fvck up others. grrrrr.