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@giggles wrote:

maybe this topic should be moved to serious threads :D

there are some valid points on both sides although people need to remain objective in their arguments :wink:

there are because children with behavioural problems need understanding not labled

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@*Dawny* wrote:

@volksie wrote:

:roll:

I’ve said what I’ve had to say and I stand by it… I agree that small children can have problems but alot of the time its still what the parents say and do that counts. The fact is most parnets will give up and blame something else rather than blame themselves and they also forget that they are parnets until their child/ren are 18!!! You can’t give up control and sh*t when there 14 ‘cos they think they know best… That’s why alot are who and how they are today!

i agree wiv u volks

soz steve i dont agree wiv u on this one im afraid, ive worked wiv kids most my life an u can tell a bad un a mile away, same as u can notice a “genuine” kid wiv “genuine” problems
the bad uns carry their ADHD label wiv pride cos it means its their “get out of jail free” card, an the bad parents r just relieve cos on the surface it looks like they r not to blame, when infact they r their kids worst enemys for lettin them get in that state in the 1st place

Nope just because the child is bad doesnt mean the parent is bad i strongly disagree with you on that one

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@*Dawny* wrote:

@stevenage_f wrote:

@volksie wrote:

:roll:

I’ve said what I’ve had to say and I stand by it… I agree that small children can have problems but alot of the time its still what the parents say and do that counts. The fact is most parnets will give up and blame something else rather than blame themselves and they also forget that they are parnets until their child/ren are 18!!! You can’t give up control and sh*t when there 14 ‘cos they think they know best… That’s why alot are who and how they are today!

Have you got any children?

wot difference does it make if she has children or not?

i wasnt talking to you ijust want to say you dont give up on your children when they are 18 i have 2 older than that and i will support them through out their lives

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@volksie wrote:

:roll:

I’ve said what I’ve had to say and I stand by it… I agree that small children can have problems but alot of the time its still what the parents say and do that counts. The fact is most parnets will give up and blame something else rather than blame themselves and they also forget that they are parnets until their child/ren are 18!!! You can’t give up control and sh*t when there 14 ‘cos they think they know best… That’s why alot are who and how they are today!

Have you got any children?

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Oh and as for the MMR i know someone who attends a group for their children and most of the parents say their children were normal before the vaccine

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@volksie wrote:

This should have gone in serious… I can see some of us falling out on this one :? :P

Yes because i do actually work with children and some have behavioual problems,and you cant always blame the parents

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Well im sorry i dont agree with you

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Im not saying all have this ADHD what i am saying is that some children cant help being like this and however good the parenting it will not change the fact these children have problems.Im not saying my children are perfect either but i have been praised how well behaved they are,and i know by far im not a model parent.I dont think spoiling a children makes them into a hooligan.

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@volksie wrote:

Bye stevenage :)

I’m IN by the way xxx :wink:

Bye Volksie and i love your hair i hope you get it sorted

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My parents werent strict with me but i turn out very respectable and my 3 children i can say with pride have never ever been in trouble either at school or with the police and most say they are a credit to me

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