@skyblue wrote:
:D/ I really don’t have anyone to talk to abou this. I’ve been living with a guy for three years. He talked about marriage before I moved in. But at the time I wasn’t divorced yet. Now that we have been together for three years there is no talk of it. I’ve asked him if he thinks we will get married and his answer was “I guess”. I do love him but am I wasting my time? He tells me he loves me alot but doesn’t ever show it. He never holds my hand at home or in public. Never puts his arm around me. He is a nice guy and would do anything for anyone. I just don’t know if I should invest more time in this relationship. I am in my mid forties and I don’t want to be single the rest of my life. Help!!!
Yes you are wasting your time. He is using delay tactics, and clearly isnt as commited at you are.
My only advise is, im my opinion, DONT hang yourself from the loft whilst waiting.