I agree Oss……Life is much too short to live in the past,,we should be able to grow from our experiences no matter what they are and become stronger from them. Even thou at the time we are going through them we may not see that happening. We should try to cherish each moment of life we have here on this ball of dirt, and love or at least care about those around us. Those we love,,,,,,,,,,,,,,we should cherish, and let them know just how much they mean to us while we can. Spend time with those you love and love you. That is just one of the greatest gifts we can give to one another.