Multiple Persona’s

@mrs_teapot wrote:

No names were discussed thin… and thank you Dennis… but truly no need Im fine.

Its quite therapeutic admitting to yourself you were gullible and a bit thick…. and there was me thinking I was perfect :? :D :shock:

Mrs T, if the person who sets out to deceive is either determined or deluded enough, then the cleverest people can be deceived. Doctors, academics, governments and millions of individuals have all been deceived by con merchants and the disturbed.

The word ‘victim’ has been demonised. You appear to have been the victim of a deceiver with the access to a computing arrangement which circumvents the usual safeguards. that doesn’t make you unduly gullible or thick, just deceived.

There is good reason to be careful of people in chat, even the well-meaning. You have no control about how they will treat your information or with whom they are connected.

A lesson has been learned, but don’t let it stop you from being the kind of person you want to be or from enjoying the things you want to enjoy, albeit wiser than you were before.

“It’s the heart afraid of breaking that never learns to dance
It’s the dream afraid of waking that never takes the chance
It’s the one who won’t be taken who cannot seem to give
And the soul afraid of dying that never learns to live” (The Rose – Amanda McBroom)

shizo blues part 1
i hate your face,and i hate your name
i wish me and you werent the same
it doesnt bother me if people call us daft
but it bores me when i speak
and hurts me when i laugh
i cant ignore everybody but i have a damn good try
im not a member of the human race, im just a passerby
now im taking another walk in the darkness
where all the dead people play
but still cant hear the angels asking me to stay
here i lie on my bed of doubts
waiting for insanity to take me away
then me and you will be parted forever
thats all im living for
my personal doomsday…

schizo blues part 2
sitting in him armchair wasting away
wondering how he has the nerve
to face another day
his breakdown is nearing completion now
it wont be very long
before they lock him up and throw the key away
oh what did he do wrong
he got married thats what he did
but for him it all went sour
he says he will never get involved again
he no longer has the power
when i see him just sitting there
i know he is round the bend
but i cant let anybody know
because i am my only friend

pt 3 to follow.

@mrs_teapot wrote:

When I first started to chat over two years ago I was lets say less than streetwise. I spoke to people in chat some I liked some I disliked… and yes some I thought were not telling the truth.

One thing no-one can prepare themselves for though is the what I will call professional liars, men who delight in misleading people especially women, and have multiple names and persona’s.

They use several computers and have more than one ISP.. they back up one persona with another even chatting to themselves in the chat rooms or on the boards to convince other users of their individual existence. I have been a victim of one of these people… it left me unable to trust anyone here and l very rarely ever go into chat… I feel too vulnerable there.

Im saying they as if there is more than one…. I have only ever been the victim of one….but Im sure others have their stories to tell….

think more than sum have been were u r tis quite sad that ppl have to cm in different names and try n fool ppl but u live n learn mrs t ….hope u r well x

ouch,best man..gets a bit near the bone…

Words – wise words.

Mrs Teapot, you’re a loss to the chatroom. The deceiver(s) here have much to answer for. Some people think they’re terribly clever when they find that anonymity protects them. But it’s like life – you pick yourself up and are a bit more wary next time.

When I go on chat, I constantly have private messages from ‘women’ who give me their exact address (always quite near me) and want to meet me immediately, want to know what my private tastes are. Having seen the chatroom in action, I ask them to show their face on cam, and ‘she’ scarpers pdq.

Embarrassing intimacies (usually false info and slanders) then appear in public for the crowd in the pits to laugh at – I’ve seen that happen, and feel sorry for the individual who gets intensely embarrassedby it.

When it does happen – and as Words says anyone can be deceived – the dignified silence of contempt for the jokey cleverclogs is the only response, whether it’s truth or slanderous lies which are ‘revealed’.

Hope to see you in chat, a warier Mrs T??