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    Disappointment.
    i’m not sure what i expected from a chat room, i guess my idea of it was shattered. i expected laughter, a natter, like over a garden fence or maybe in a pub. (not that i frequent pubs on my own).
    instead i have had daily insult and downright nastiness.
    just to set the record straight, i’m not a bad person, nothing special, but won’t abuse people. i wont even be nasty toward people it isnt who i am. straight talker? yes, blunt sometimes, yes, nasty, no!
    for some unknown reason im called a wh ore and a prostitute, have things said about me that are untrue by people who don’t know me. christ apparently i don’t even live in the town i live in ive moved, (so im told).
    now down to business.
    Moon
    i do NOT goad you, you’re not special enough to me for me to dig at you im chatting to others not you, so stop assuming im talking about you all the time, you’re nothing to me im not interested – when you clamped onto me when i joined here you admitted you were a depressive and a drunk, i said “fine but don’t insult me or i walk away” you did, so i did exactly what i said id do. and please, stop pming me and emailing me horrible photos that joker is trying to blackmail you with.
    and here’s a tip ok? it isnt real! its words on a screen you havent had sex with everyone, you havent snuggled up and watched films with chatters. you go about your business and leave me out of it ok?
    Annette.
    all friendly and light until you saw my photo, then the knives came out. you even boast you cheat on your husband yet have the audacity to call me names?? get a life.
    and stop judging people by your own standards. yes i’m disabled too but i get on with life, yes i nursed my husband to his death from cancer, youre not that unique, none of us are.
    sorry your paragraph is short Annette i’m afraid i dont do the yelling from rooftops to get attention.

    Joker.
    must be the saddest person i have ever had the misfortune to come across on a chatsite. is addicted to the point he uses many different names at the same time sits in chat taking notes?? wtf.. see a dr for gods sake, youre ill. and just because i rejected you so that you didnt get to expose your private parts to me on c am like you do to other women, it doesnt mean i am what you think i am in your sad little head. keep your opinions of me to the truth. you havent met me, you dont know me.
    i can be a formiddable adversary believe me.

    now for some facts, some wont like this because youll claim im doing the me,me,me well for gods sake stop doing it yourselves ok?

    i am exactly what i say i am, if you cannot handle that, then i pity you, i’m a calm gentle person with a heart full of love for everything, my life isnt exciting full of sex or meeting every man online, i do yoga, i paint, i do my housework, im a clean living widow.
    thats it.
    nothing special, don’t make me part of your lives i’m not interested.

    go chat to the liars you’ll enjoy it.
    and please note there is nothing typed here from a he said she said … i go by my own judgement, its helped me to survive
    oh just a ps here – yes ive been asked for photos of myself naked, and ive sent photos, theyre not me though, you can find any photos you like online. so if any of you “think” i’ve sent you naked photos, look at them carefully ok? theyre not me, only photos of me are ones in clothes, apart from the one of me in the hat (which my late husband took and shows nothing).

    #525731

    You should have “met” Geoff :lol:

    #525732

    I think it’s such a shame you let the numpties get to you, Laine, but may I remind you of your own words in your original post….’and here’s a tip ok? it isnt real! its words on a screen’.

    If you bear that in mind when people are being less than kind, it won’t matter.

    When it first happens, it can be quite devastating and you feel bound to defend your honour. It’s pointless. Very sadly, most of us have experienced it at one time or another (and that doesn’t mean I think it’s ok to do it). Those who choose to be unpleasant, will always be so, no matter how much you decry their words.

    Chin up gal, and don’t let the buggers get you down.

    #525733

    But it is real, it’s very real. What it needs is permanent 24 hr good guides really but that’s not gonna happen. 4.am is around the best time if you’re gonna chat but that was in the day’s of Butterfly et al may not be now

    #525734

    It can feel that way Trapper, I’ll agree with that. Surely it’s about perspective and what you allow to effect you?

    It can also depend on how important who is saying what is. If those who spout ignorance and nastiness are of no consequence in your life, just don’t sweat it. Either that, or say little about your personal life in the room.

    The worst ones are those who chat to you in pm and very possibly in another name, then bring that to the room. Pure malevolence.

    Most have us have been duped at one point or another. Just look back at Mrs Teapot’s thread of not so long ago.

    As for the guides….well….enuff said.

    #525735

    @the two posts of bemused bystander

    =D> =D> =D> =D> =D>

    they are advised reading for all who use chat and don’t want to hurt people

    #525736

    @Bemused Bystander wrote:

    It can feel that way Trapper, I’ll agree with that. Surely it’s about perspective and what you allow to effect you?

    It can also depend on how important who is saying what is. If those who spout ignorance and nastiness are of no consequence in your life, just don’t sweat it. Either that, or say little about your personal life in the room.

    The worst ones are those who chat to you in pm and very possibly in another name, then bring that to the room. Pure malevolence.

    Most have us have been duped at one point or another. Just look back at Mrs Teapot’s thread of not so long ago.

    As for the guides….well….enuff said.

    Yeah I agree, but it can be difficult to not let it affect you. Personally i just got angry that it was being spoiled by a few idiots who wouldn’t have the bollocks to say it to the person’s face. As for personal stuff I once typed out my address in chat…twice.. that was probably a mistake :lol:

    #525737

    Oh I know its words on a screen Bemused, but its relentless, and my thoughts are not of it affecting me but disruption in the room. maybe i didnt make myself as clear as i thought i had, i apologise.

    Trapper is right 4 am -6am is the nicest time to chat (i am an early riser bad habit) save for a couple of names i wont mention who have decided when theyre not too tired and have been on here all night who cause mayhem.

    many many times i have popped in with a cuppa joined in with the banter (shock horror i also have a fabulous sense of humour). and then it starts…….. and the room stops, people leave, i know it isn’t my fault per se, but i feel this awful guilt that because of the brainless morons who have made me so important in their lives they cannot leave me alone at the detriment of the room which was quite happy before they started.
    chatting happily then someone will say i bet laine takes it up the chuff, (i giggle, but the room stops), or….. oh laine werent you thrown off a yacht.
    why? what purpose does it serve

    hope that clears sh!t up a bit grins. xx

    #525738

    laine,great post but i feel i know its unfortunate but,real boardsters dont go down that route,bit off p!ss taking here,banter there,but those of us thatve been here years,my good self,el trappo,kenters,scep,tinks,jen jen etc know where to draw the line,alas we do have dickheads like joker always trying to spoil it he should just be eradicated,eliminated in my book
    yes i bang on about moi and gucci in chat but they are just harmless chatters,pathetic but harmless
    but the evil ones are your jokers etc
    i remember not just me but my gf at the time (martini mix) were good friends with mrs t,she doesnt live far from us,we arranged to meet at the naked cafe in settle n yorks
    for a cup of tea etc,she couldnt turn up because joker had got wind of it,gave her all sorts of threats what would happen to her if she met us
    he had her that scared she had no ultimatum to leave the boards and chat
    no wonder hes banned from the boards
    mr bond is a truly despicable old bitter man who should be banned from chat as well,never mind this floating i.p bollox i could ban him today if i was granted permission.
    so dont worry about dicks like joker laine xxx

    #525739

    The thing that I don’t really get, is when someone in the room is being abused, everyone just seems to let it happen. Almost like keeping their heads below the parapet in case they are noticed and become the victim of the vitriol.

    From the posts in response to Laine’s thread, everyone seems to be in agreement that is an atrocious event whenever it happens, yet very few seem to intervene or defend the targeted person.

    Saying that, I’ve seen Rogue intervene when the subject’s real name is put in the room or some similar event.

    People are strange….would they walk by if someone was being beaten in the street? I hope not.

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