RIP Daniel – Why Bullying Sucks

Bullies will still exist in rooms as long as people can change name and numbers on daily basis, and ip addresses.

Rooms are suppose to allow freedom of speech, however rooms are used as revenge, grudges, and a port hole of multiplie personalities in which one person can have many
Using ability to fish and attack weak and vulnerable.

Really very sad….but so true.

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king_strongbow

So Martin made a member only room, as requested, and no one uses it? Well there’s a surprise. Same thing happened years ago with 40’s. People whinged and moaned that no one used it. They wanted it to be like the ‘old days’, when they had fun. And what happened? No one used it. The reason being because all the juicy stuff,rows amd gossip,happened in the lobby. And people cant stand to miss anything.

If I were Martin I’d take the members only room away. Then if people whinge, as they always do,tell em tough, you asked for it, I gave you what you asked for, and you dont use it. So live with what you’ve got.

Basically whatever Martin does,people will whinge. This site should be renamed Just Whinge. 🙄

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lindaclemenza7, king_strongbow

Draculina – The rather insensitive comments you’ve made about Daniel’s suicide being a result of his own psychological state – his not being strong enough to just ignore the cruel things being said to him – moreso than that of the horrible being who encouraged him to commit such a tragic act, MIGHT hold water ONLY IF Daniel had been an ADULT.  And even then, an adult does NOT have to be deemed “mentally ill” to commit suicide.  Suicide is a result of reaching a point in one’s life where hopelessness and desperation is far too overwhelming and there doesn’t SEEM to be any other solution.  A CHILD usually doesn’t have the common sense NOT to take bullying to heart.  His parents obviously and sadly didn’t have a clue, but I think that might have more to do with parenting these days which encourages [them] to allow their children to have privacy – too much privacy – supposedly to support self expression and independence and so forth.  Flawed thinking/theory!  Parents, in my opinion, should always be involved as much as possible, to make sure their child/children are always protected from this disgusting sort of thing… until such time that they are “adult” and emotionally sound/solid enough to handle such matters on their own.  The monster who bullied Daniel into ending his life IS very much at fault…  And, if you feel the need to  blame a portion thereof on his parents, then also blame the bully’s parents for not being present and allowing their child to be a bully!.. I mean, by your theory, parents should know, and thereby they should have immediately put a stop to their child’s harmful actions towards others.  I’ve a feeling you aren’t a parent, and therefore your thought process doesn’t allow you to empathize and see it from the perspective of a hurting child… from the perspective of Daniel.  RIP, Daniel… & [my] deepest sympathies to his parents.

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TheNorfolkMafia

To be honest jane yer not quite right in no one uses the members only room…Angel uses it and i go in there a few times a day.

[10 July, 2017 at 6:03 pm

@draculina –

Edit:
I will provide an example of the most mild trolling possible, which i did earlier:

Person : Andy Murray is the best.
Drac: Is he the golfer?
Person: Tennis drac
Drac: Tennis is the one with the bat, right?
Person: Racket
Drac: I thought that was rugby
Person: Lmao drac

Clearly the other person realised that I was trolling them at that point.]

god sake bullying and trolling is the same thing, they are both types of bullying, online or offline if people have a weak mind and some troll/bully knows that or dont know it yet, well it cud be to late, the victem cud be self harming or even kill there self, time and time again i have seem many deaths just by online bullying/trolling, tbh DRAC that example, that seems like a joke to me i do that a lot acting dumb i see that as banter not bullying, it dont seem insulting, yes i know u said – (mild) thou, but i dont think people should use the word troll in that context u posted, what if it was like this hyperthecally, as this is what i call trolling/bullying –

JN VIC how old are you?
victem: 40 JN
JN are your female VIC?
victem: yes JN
JN: do you have any friends VIC?
victem: no JN
JN: ha you fat old bastard, who has no friends, as u are a dumb freak VIC
victem: i dont like that JN please stop
JN: oh shut up you pussy, god die in the corner no one will care about some wrinckled loner like you awww hahaahaha you spaz VIC
victem: why you so horrible to me?
JN: VIC you are just a worthless human VIC, you know that, as you see no one likes you lol doh now dont cry now weak cunt hahahahaha

(people need to stop using the word troll as something good or and bad, it should always be used as bad, it is as dumb as certion usa people using the word nigger as like – “you my nigger you are” what means “you are my friend you are”,  or “that is sick” meaning “that is great” even thou sick means puke…. the logic of certian humans really makes me think is that movie idiocrasy real, if people are allown to use one word with mutible meaning them that is going to make communication more difficult, wait to late, we have that already called the – Thesaurus, anyway)

the prob is thou with bullying/trolling is it depends if the victem sees it has bullying/trolling as others cud see it as banter not bullying/trolling, like for example, i was walking to the shops one day, and some guy said to his friend “oh no it is a caveman” he was talking about me, i said to him “excuse me do u know where my cave is i have lost it” but he was that dumb i had to remind him as he said “what?” i had to explain it to the dumbass “well u said i am a caveman” then he starting loling, as he got the joke then, now i cud of been offended what he said to me i cud of said “why did you call me that, that is nasty i am not a caveman” you see someone else would of been sensitive about that comment.

also people have called me a troll, ha dumb naive people, anyone notice the people who say that to or about me, are on my (toddler brain/twat syndrome) list, also they are on that list as one or more times they have disrespected me, they made the error being horrible to me, so if anyone thinks i am trolling someone stfu, u dont know the fact, even if they not on my list the same logic is applied to it, also there is people who say some dumb comments like “if you attack people who are horrible, you are as bad as them (2 wrongs dont make a right)” actully i dissagree with that dumb comment, right as how is it wrong for someone to attack someone who attack/s me and or other kind people, to attack them back?, i only see one wrong here the troll who attack/s me or and other kind people so that comment – (2 wrongs dont make a right), dont really work in this context.

also there is always chatters who say dont attack them, obv as they like that chatter who is being attacked, or they dont know them, that is a type of controll telling others dont say that dont say this, people like different people it is as simple as that if people dont like people attacking someone, as they like them, that is there prob not yours, i mean i dont like certian chatters but i know other people i like, like them chatters i dont like, and also i  know chatters who dont like someone i like, but i dont choose sides and i wont chooses sides, unless i seen the start of the story of why people i like dont like someone else i like, tbh it is rare seeing the start of the storys of this contextual prob, i have only seen it a few times,

also there is people who want people to agree with there opnion about some chatter like for example – “JN ? is a right cunt anrte they?” i dont do that unless i actully agree with that, even if i dont like the chatter the person is talking to or about, if i dont like someone i will put my own opnion in the chat room about them, also i might like the chatter so obv i wont agree with that type of ?, also that type of ? is another type of controll, as they want people to agree with them like to make mutible people bully one person, i am someone who when i have something to say negitive or positive to someone i will do it how i want and in my own time, not when people beg me to agree with them about some chatter, and at times people want me to defend them, i say to them i will if i know what to say, dont moan about me not defending them, it dont work like that, obv people dont always have something to say, and also people need to learn to defend there self, as for me yes people defend me but i am not botherd if they dont defend me, prob as i am use to defending my self as i had no one doing it for me when i was younger, so i maybe it is something i dont need while others do need the defence.