i watched a programme on adhd, and i felt for the parents because its a hard job being a parent and when a child has adhd they cant help it i know like i said before my aunties sister in law has a daughter who is autistic (different i know but still) but what the thread was about it just naturaly unruley kids like the ones on super nanny and y we think they run out of control…….its easy to point the finger yes but in an average house hold and there is a out of control child its normally the parent in some was because where do babies to toddlers to children learn from? But i saw all along stevenage what you were on about i did post it but also sometimes the parents are to blame i have seen it with my own 2 eyes. My friend has ASBOs due to her 3 boys ones 6 ones 4 and the other 2 and she teaches them to swear spit kick punch and they hurt the family pets which i find disturbing now she is trying to tell me her sons have adhd!!!! well if she stopped teaching them naughty things they would be lovely boys :roll: