in my humble opinion,the art of a good chatter has a few components,so i no particular my top ten would be
1,politeness
2,respect to other chatteres
3.type to ppl like you would be liked to be chat too
4,be humble
5,modesty
6,no i am the big i am rubbish
7,courtesy
8humour
9make ppl smile when you type
10er ive finished