i think my s,o,h verges in the middle of a soupcon of dryness,a pinch of drollness,a twist of corny,and a frazzle of outright absurdity,yep i can like many other regs upset the applecart .but remember its a male and female room,and we all come from different parts of the country (even countries) many jokes,wind ups.put downs etc can be regionally based and some ppl will just not get it. as eve said her and i are not bosom buddies,but somewhere along the line we share a similiarish form of regionality,i.e i thought the song she picked for me was hilarious (and true to a degree) same as thin no way we are mates but sometimes i grin at his posts,not all just some,so all i can say tbh is just lighten up to the ppl who cant take it,after all its better to be mentioned than not.