Cass_2000

So essentially jen and pete, you’re both saying if you don’t have trust, you don’t have much of a relationship?

@Pete wrote:

@Cass_2000 wrote:

@Pete wrote:

So if someone was being told by their friends that their partner is a terrible flirt they’re always doing it they could just say “oh thats what they’re like it’s harmless” and not have any doubt

Well yes obv you would get doubt, but what if you believed they mean no harm by it…. Someone once said to me…

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Does not having trust end a relationship? what if you chose to start again, try and rebuild the trust… which is what the post is orginally about really, forgiving and forgetting.

@Pete wrote:

So if someone was being told by their friends that their partner is a terrible flirt they’re always doing it they could just say “oh thats what they’re like it’s harmless” and not have any doubt

Well yes obv you would get doubt, but what if you believed they mean no harm by it…. Someone once said to me “I have a flirty…[Read more]

@(f)politics? wrote:

ok now here is where i have to disagree, flirting can in a way be quite selfless as people like to be liked and admired so flirting with someone can make that person feel good about themselves as long as it is only that it can be a way of being charming nothing more.

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@Pete wrote:

If you accept that because the other person keeps telling you “it means nothing it’s harmless” I think you’re kidding yourself and I think deep down you know it… (by you i dont mean you i mean a person any person)

That part

I used to think that too, why flirt if you are getting everything you want from a relationship.. but I have to disagree with the other part.

What if you truly believe both have it… I’ve noticed that nowadays it seems “Normal” or more acceptable for people who are in relationships to flirt with others via whatever means… I hear the term “flirting is harmless as long as it never goes anywhere” alot… maybe that’s just how it is these days?

What if its love that makes you forgive… whats that saying, ” You can get through anything if you have love” or something along those lines…

:shock: :shock: I shall never moan about how big mine are again! :shock:

@Pete wrote:

If you can forgive them then it just might work because forgiving isn’t as simple as letting them off the hook it empowers you to move on. It of course depends on their resulting behaviour.

What if they keep doing it tho, but not as often, and you never seem to be able to let them go and always carry that hope and forgiveness….

@Pete wrote:

And God said let there be light.. and there was light
and you could see for f*cking miles

And then he said let there be Gaz…and we never recovered

Beautiful hun, and so true x

Catching up with some music :D :D :D

@(f)politics? wrote:

pml GG aint seen you around for a while, but full of compassion its nice to see :lol:
Personally i can see both viewpoints Danny you are quite right, if a relationship can get along without it effecting the children in otherwords there is no obvious tensions or fights i agree, but i also agree with cass if it is a destructive…

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@WooHoo wrote:

@Cass_2000 wrote:

I’m thinking about how nice some people on here are :D

Gaz been flashing again?.. 8-[

No,it was you last night :wink:

Doing the next door neighbour?..doesnt surprise me :lol: :wink:

You been out all night woohoo? :shock:

Awww hun

Oh dear! I bet you quickly hit the delete button