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@chathostuk wrote:

Let’s quash the rumours.

Just Chat is free and there are no plans to change that. Advertising pays the bills around here. Sometimes it’s annoying. Often there’s too much of it, but that’s the way it has to be.

For those who want access to the chat rooms without advertising, there is a paid option:

http://www.jcplus.co.uk/

For everyone else, please rest assured that you will continue to have free access to Just Chat for as long as the advertising pays the bills.

thank you for clearing this up martin xx

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@kent f OBE wrote:

You may have heard on the news or read in the papers today the Asian sex monsters found guilty of child sex crimes are to be sentenced today.

It’s tough reading and listening….has left me with a knot in my stomach.
In my opinion crimes like these are worst than murder, by that I mean the victim will be scarred for life without a doubt. I would imagine it would affect future relationships…trust issues…letting their children out of their site…the list goes on.

A 15 yr old girl reported the gang in 2008 but the Crown Prosection took no action. Investigations only began in 2010.

Now what has angered me even more , reading in the paper today…most seem to have been named except the Ringleader.The 59 yr old from Oldham faces life in jail. Why can’t he be named when he has been convicted when others in the gang can?

When the gang is so big, the victims so many, the luring taken place in public places like takeaway restaurants…how do people get away with it for so long?

they get away with it for so long kenty because victims are ‘conditioned’ live in fear of violence , or worse i wont love you if you dont the list is endless.

thing is girls as young as 13 were groomed which doesnt say much for their home life does it , there could be abuse at home, the parents themselves could have been abused (not that necessarily makes them abusers) they could have had no role models etc, the list is endless, but, sexual abuse, physical abuse happens every day and countless victims are either conditioned by their abusers or just live in fear, grateful for any crumb of affection they can get ……

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@terry wrote:

Why don’t you just send him a pm? :roll:

because there are more than me want to know, i thought as so many seem to be confused a public question and answer would be easier and cut out the ‘middle man’.

I do hope that answers your question :roll:

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to be honest and ithink theres more like it than not, i think its because most of us want the best and we want it now, silly house price rises, credit cards, etc, blame the immigrants and yet we ‘english’ forget how our lads went out to germany and places on the buildings to earn better money, the fact that we all are tempted by a ‘better life style’ at least half a dozen of my kids peers are now in australia lured by the life, the money etc, and yet, perhaps we shouldlook closer to home for blame if there is in fact a blame to be made

difficult? yes, return to old fashioned values? yes……you want something, then save for it or go without? im as guilty as the nextperson for taking ‘easy credit’ getting what i want yesterday instead of waiting till tommorow….. the answer to all the probs…..i doubt it but it could go a way towards easing it a bit maybe……

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have been told if u put jc on favs then u get straight in , and to be honest it worked so martins search engine figures will go right down when we all do that to by pass the ads

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I’ve got a hard road to travel and a rough rough way to go
Said it’s a hard road to travel and a rough rough way to go
But I can’t turn back, my heart is fixed
My mind’s made up, I’ll never stop
My faith will see, see me through

Let me tell you
I’m all alone, this lonesome road I roam
I’ve got no love to call my very own
Oh the river gets deeper, the hills get steeper
And the pain gets deeper every day, yeah

I’ve got a hard road to travel and a rough rough way to go
Said it’s a hard road to travel and a rough rough way to go
But I can’t turn back, my heart is fixed
My mind’s made up, I’ll never stop
My faith will see, see me through

Aah, oh oh
Aah, oh oh – one more thing

I dream of a home far beyond the sea
Where there is love and peace and joy for me
Oh, in my eyes I see troubles and dangers for me
But destiny where it leads me I must go, hey

I’ve got a hard road to travel and a rough rough way to go
Said it’s a hard road to travel and a rough rough way to go
But I can’t turn back, my heart is fixed
My mind’s made up, I’ll never stop
My faith will see, see me through

Aah, oh oh – no, help me somebody
Aah, oh oh – somebody please, help me right now

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i came across this in the week the lyrics touched me.

MAKING LOVE OUT OF NOTHING AT ALL (Air Supply)

I know just how to whisper
And I know just how to cry
I know just where I find the answers
And I know just how to lie
I know just how to fake it
And I know just how to scheme
I know just when to face the truth
And then I know just when to dream
And I know just where I touch you
And I know just what to prove
I know when to pull you closer
And I know when to let you loose

And I know the night is fading
And I know the time�s gonna fly
And I�m never gonna tell you everything I gotta tell you
But I know I�ve got to give it a try

And I know the roads to riches
And I know the ways to pain
I know all the rules and then I know how to break�em
And then I always know the name of the game

But I don�t know how to leave you
And I�ll never let you fall
And I don�t know how you do it
Making love out of nothing at all

Making love
Out of nothing at all
Making love
Out of nothing at all
Making love
Out of nothing at all
Making love
Out of nothing at all
Making love
Out of nothing at all
Making love
Out of nothing at all

Everytime I see you, well the rays of the sun are all
Streaming through the waves in your hair
And every star in the sky is taking aim at your eyes
Like a spotlight
The beating of my heart is a drum and it�s lost
And it�s looking for a rhythm like you
You can take the darkness from the deep of the night
And turn it to a beacon burning endlessly bright
I gotta follow it �cause everything I know
Well, it�s nothing �till I give it to you

I can make the runner stumble
I can make the final block
And I can make every tackle at the sound of the whistle
And I can make all the stadiums rock

I can make tonight forever
Or I can make it disappear by the dawn
And I can make you every promise that�s ever been made
And I can make all your demons be gone

But I�m never gonna make it without you
Do you really wanna see me crawl ?
And I�m never gonna make it like you do
Making love out of nothing at all

Making love
Out of nothing at all…

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^^^ beautiful sgt ty not sure if it has a special meaning for you at this point in time? hugs anyway xxx

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welcome to the boards mm , enjoy!! xxx

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ive lost count on how many times ive tried to post this and my machine has just froze, i think its that JA himself teasing me as he often did lol, he had a unique chat guide style, the biggest heart and a great sense of humour. he could deal with a ‘situation’ in the chat room in his own style , using his humour and his no nonsense approach, folk respected him, i miss him in the quiz on a sunday night, i miss him as a friend, i miss him as a lovely human being. hes probably sitting up there right now saying ‘shurrup ya daft woman’ lol. i cant beleive its 5 years ………nanite , god bless JA xxxxxxxxxx

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