just be there for them cleany thats wot counts in the long run lol xx my 2 grown now and my youngest took me shoppin the other day (i know lol makes me feel old) and wen i sed ty hunnie she sed ‘its ok mum, pays to be nice to yer kids wen they young lol …. cheeky madam ………. above all else tho hugs and bein there no matter wot the best thing u can do fer yer kids xx nice to see ya posting agin cleany xx