A good friend of mine held a joint 18th birthday party for his then girlfriend and his sister……. i knew them all so of course i was invited …….i was standing talking to him when up came a workmate of his …… who i was introduced to as oh this is chessy* i tell you about …… so he knew about me and i hadnt been aware of his existance………and so i met the love of my life….. the rest as they say is history…..
We went together for two and a half years then got engaged …… married 18 months after that …….. i can honestly say it was the best thing i have ever done and i regret not one minute of it. So yes the love of my life but also my rock through thick and thin …… hopefully always will be.
Im very aware that it works for some and not for others and everyone has different circumstances and situations. I dont know if theres a secret to it as such ….. i know i try to never take him for granted (doesnt always work)and respect both ways is the way to go.
And im a great believer in if its for you it wont pass you by …
* name edited for privacy reasons :lol: