Confused

Thanks- it does have its up and downs, these are one of those times. We sat down and realized we both were too consumed by our own issues that we needed to take sometime apart and work on ourselves. If after this time we find we are past repair, we’ll go from there.

I’ll see you on the boards.

Thanks for everything in the end we have decided to separate, short-term or permanently is not yet decided.

My sentiments exactly.

I know, if my response came out too harsh it wasn’t meant to.

Adeboje,

I honestly don’t know if your serious or being sarcastic. I by the way know a lot of Nigerian women and they are very strong. Half my MSc class were Nigerian female doctors completing a second major. One left her four children with her husband back home to finish. As for meat, from what I’ve heard and seen vegetarians are usually more…[Read more]

Sorry Pete, thank ladies and gents. Honestly thanks to all for their input its helped released some stress talking it out.

Rules for Men‬

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‪1. It’s important to have a woman who helps at home.‬

‪2. It’s important to have a woman who cooks from time to time.‬

‪3. It’s important to have a woman who keeps the house clean.‬

‪4. It’s important to have a woman who has a job.‬

‪5. It’s important to have a woman who likes you.‬

‪6. It’s important to have a woman who…[Read more]

Thanks ladies, I know I need to work on my own issues and then reassess my marriage, but easier said then done :wink: I have issues talking about my marital problems with anyone I know because when its in the mist of the problem I know that more often I am jumping the gun with how bad things are and will just regret someone hears the worst of my…[Read more]

Your comments are true. Its going back and realizing what I’ve missed out on, or more to say realizing I never did anything when I could. Experiment, find myself or whatever and now as a mother I really can’t no matter how much I would like to my kids come first. But it is true women do have it harder, I want more children and have for the past…[Read more]

Forum,

Interesting, I’ll have to give that a try. Eating bananas are said to improve your mood who knows what sticking it in your ear could do.

Thanks Kent- I know that’s probably true, my husband is feeling frustrated out of his normal routine and environment but I wonder if I’m expecting to much with my own issues that I just need some reassurance that I matter. Its been a hard year with all the self-doubt in my ability to do this (my degree) and myself was confirmed by others. That’s a…[Read more]