thanks for your kind words cass xxx and i totally get what your saying and how you say its better to protect your children from a lie ….. but havin seen both sides, lived the make it work kinda thing n the seperate lives for the children i’m sure in my heart even tho they have had great times over the past 11 years with me that if my x had nt ave eneded the marriage and we were still together muddling along they would have had such a happier childhood

thank you woo i guess there are a greater number of people who try to make it work than we ever know about …. and thanks for the mail i would of replied but don’t know how to yet i did try and as soon as i work it out i will reply :D

but i’ve seen the effect that a break up has on the children emotionally and that is something that had devastating effects on them it is only now as late teens they are able to find their way thro it with any kind of comfort what so ever

steady

”’ yeah was the same on a site i was on for a good few years b4 i came here boards were cool most of time rooms were full of fruit cakes lol”

but i was trying for the sake of my children to bring them up in a stable relationship all be it stormy one at times but one that showed togetherness n some kind of love … it wouldnt ave mattered to me if i had been tryin all my life cause as far as i was concerned my roles had changed in life it wasn’t about me gettin the best for me anymore it was about me gettin the best for my children … after the break up i used to take them home and they woiuld cry that they didn’t want to go home .. to see their pain at those times was a far worse pain than anything i had to take as a married man

flow

”’ yeah i’m tempted to stay on the boards only now i’ve found my way on them see how it goes xx”

xx

water

”yeah i must be missin ya in the romm n msn cass will ave to catch up later like to keep my friends informed :D ”

eat

”’ yeah they good thanx had check up wed went k changed some meds but all is k thanx xx’

cook

” i’m great thanks cass how are you x”

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