i think it depends on what your situation is … i mean i stayed in a marriage where i was being cheated on but i was able to deal with the situation i tolerated my x’s mood swings and abuse as i wanted to live a life full time with my children … i would probably still ave been there to this day it didn’t matter to me what i was going thro as long as the kids were ok …. i mean they used to say ya had to work at it to keep things together , sometimes these days people give up far to easy …. you have to try if you think there is something worthwhile to rebuild