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I was just thinking though Rainbow. The rubbish iv taken for my thoughts.Lol The man meets woman in chat, man tells the woman all sorts of lies to get W*** 0r a Ssh**.So many hurt woman going about. And in some cases men.
I will not condone that. The this is a lesson in life im teaching you you should be grateful to me and shush. You will be better in the long run.Im knocking you down to build you up. Utter guff. There using the site for a wank and using people. I do not agree so shoot me.No doubt we will have the oh but they shouldn’t be so stupid people. That is condoning. I say it though and im shot down in flames.
We were talking about trust in the room. In my every day life off the net, didn’t really get too close to people. I have trusted people on the net, but its woman that have really upset me.I cant help if I think different. I don’t hide how I think to people when I talk to them and I do have a lot of friends.

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@rogue trader wrote:

shall i show you how to do it somer?
youre biggest mistake was trying to humiliate me

i will not put up with your lip again
erm looks for you tube nah cant get it
stick to chat somer,boards are for the intelligent ppl
now fck off
you remind me of a child,just speak when you are spoken to,and before you give it large somer you tried to attack me first
now go away you irritating fly before i really start on you.

your boring me.Yawns.

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@rogue trader wrote:

um hecate i like you,but i cant understand why you are having a “pop” at some chatters?
yes you can string a few sentences together
but its not all about that
its about learning how to fit in
why are you being so contentious?
like bow said we can talk shyte,we can do serious we can do anything
just go with the flow mate and youve got got some very intelligent chatters here to josh along with ,dont kick us cos we all limp
just slow down,take it easy ok bud?

Jeepers cosy,if I don’t fit in I don’t fit in.I find it very difficult to string together those sentence’s. I don’t understand why your talking about my poppin,you do it evry day .Anyways calp dowm stay cool.

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@Arc en wrote:

I bloody knew it !!!

Incidentally I think it’s bang out of order to bring a chatters that no longer post or rarely post into this discussion.

Manipulating is exactly what you are trying to do Hecate … now leave the cauldron alone before it boils over & you get burnt again.

My god I even acknowledged & defended you when you were blatantly goaded in the room last night.

Leopards & their spots eh :roll:

Im not bringing up anyone one in particular. Kenty is posting. As I sed I saw that happening all the time. Im just explaining were not all wired up in the same way, In my way. Thank you for your words today, they were genuine and kind. That came from your heart no one else’s. As for yoker, who cares.

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@kent f OBE wrote:

@hecate wrote:

Im not a sucker for a sob storey but have empathy with people in such situations. Souley adores you and would defend you even if at any time your in the wrong. I put up a scenario, because you asked. The title of the thread is psychological manipulation. I used you as en example because you suggested I assumed, I know kenty.I have seen your reaction in these situations. Who the hell are you to minimize peoples feelings in to a sob story. If I were being manipulated kenty.Trust me id be away in some hotel, putting my health at risk with some strange man who has no intention of anything other than sha gging..Im not judging anyone who has just to me that’s manipulation. I wont shut my gob when some man is trying to put me in a corner, or any woman. We all suffer in these situations, no need to minimize other peoples pain for popularity with men. I don’t buy the I use men as much as they use me rubbish.

You are judging…you are irate…..you dont know me at all
I see you still have no guts to tell us who you are….carrying on the PM….i stand by what I said…you are doing it ….but your view is clouded by something for sure……
i asked you for an example of course I did…I was trying to clarify your opening post…so I can discuss the topic……I have replied with no fear….you however are scared to tell us who you are…..
you cannot possibly think that the examples you have given us that you know ALL sides for you to come to that conclusion………..Do people know where to go running to when there is a problem in there?…..blah blah blah lets all run to Hectate…open our hearts completely to her so she can show us unconditional sympathy…dear lord what are you on?
Anyway apart from that …good discussion if you could keep it less personal
Only an impartial person would not show the PM behaviour…obviously

Lol kenty.Im not judging just saying what I know to be true. You know who I am everyone does. I don’t give in to threats , just had a thinly disguised threat from joker. He can not threaten me .I wont let that happen, id rather he did what he has to do.Just for kenty its moon x

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@rogue trader wrote:

and your wild assumptions of kenty are out of order.

Your reaction is typical.

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Im not a sucker for a sob storey but have empathy with people in such situations. Souley adores you and would defend you even if at any time your in the wrong. I put up a scenario, because you asked. The title of the thread is psychological manipulation. I used you as en example because you suggested I assumed, I know kenty.I have seen your reaction in these situations. Who the hell are you to minimize peoples feelings in to a sob story. If I were being manipulated kenty.Trust me id be away in some hotel, putting my health at risk with some strange man who has no intention of anything other than sha gging..Im not judging anyone who has just to me that’s manipulation. I wont shut my gob when some man is trying to put me in a corner, or any woman. We all suffer in these situations, no need to minimize other peoples pain for popularity with men. I don’t buy the I use men as much as they use me rubbish.

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No no no no kenty,you do do that. I have been at the receiving end of it.It doesn’t help it causes jealousy resentment and confusion. Your not a bad person im very fond of you and love your posting. Helps the manipulation that goes on though. I know you know many people and they all love you, your friends. I totally understand your indignation. Im not trying to be unkind or condescending.

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@rogue trader wrote:

yeh but the likes of sgt pep and bk are legends truly awesome posters ,but theyd never put you down.

:roll:Whos putting them down. Pepper is ok and I don’t know bk

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@kent f OBE wrote:

Hi Hec…..you say you observe alot…therefore I am surprised you dont know the difference between whats said in there and what actually happens…I have chatted on and off for a long time now and to be honest I have not witnessed that scenario more than a couple of times….yes I agree it probably happens…but once contact is made regards to who likes who etc…surely the next level is taken into private conversation away from other chatters eyes…
I go back to an original point i made…unless you have spoken and know the truth from all 4 parties you cannot actually make an assumption it is PM….its impossible…along those lines whats to say any one of those parties will tell the truth 100?
In my opinion you are doing what you accused others of doing somewhere in another post….you are assuming alot of facts then making a situation of it….
Are you an avid chatter? Long term chatter?….you see…heres the thing…a few weeks ago i found out from a gobby chatter that I had a relationship wit h a chatter called Mcvicar…he stayed at my house for a week blah blah blah…when I put it to that chatter to ask Mcvicar in front of me she said he is dead…how convenient of him….You would have thought if we were so close that I wouldve been notified about his death! I have never met this chatter and he certanly did not come to stay at my house….
Now this gobby chatter probably told numerous other chatters and I actually believe Mcvicar told that lot that he did come to stay with me…its a lie…you cannot believe anything anyone tells you…you might not believe my version either..who knows…
Even simple things in chat are not simple

Yes I know the difference. Iv been in chat rooms nearly 20 years and jc about 7 years. I haven’t always chatted in the room, far to shy, When I saw people like sgt pepper or the likes of black kettle I would think wooow there amazing. I would sit chat in pm and watch the room for hours. Yes iv known people it have happened two, its real easy though to sit watch the room and its very clear after you’ve studied it, what happens. You know and there is no point in denying it to save a friend, or what ever. These things are seen and ignored, because that’s just how things are. Some people go to great lengths to protect certain people. Iv had some crackers told about me.
You don’t have to tell me lies have been told about people. I have seen the rubbish thrown at you. You begin to get that sixth sense though about truth and fiction. I have been told so much rubbish about people you wouldn’t believe the storeys. People know there not true but will pick up the ball and run with it.I have done that I have to confess. The reson,if some eject is going to try put me down, down they will come with me. Iv seen mean befriend who they think have money, for real. Others can see it but say nothing because they have there own agenda. Weave all had the lies told about us. That doesn’t excuse the nasty hurtful real evil head games played by people for the sake of a shag or a wank or any reason, games played buy people. To be honest your one of the worst people in jc for sticking up for a man who has hurt a woman with head games. If there’s a bloke challenged or up against the truth pound to a penny you jump in there and come to his defence. Rattling of reasons why woman should know better. Which does nothing at all to help situations. You have your own reasons for that, I don’t even know if you know why you do it.

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