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I wish it to be known that I am taking a break from the boards from around 2pm this afternoon until about 10.30 tomorrow morning. This is not a flounce but a real-life engagement…and I don’t need anyone to tell me how much they love/will miss me… :P
Am I missing something? What does it matter how much time she spends away? Days, weeks, months…maybe she’ll never return…
excited! :D/
@anc wrote:
@mrs_teapot wrote:
Panda hasn’t flounced…. she told me about a real life commitment a while ago that would take her from here for about three months Im sure she will have told other regulars about it too…. as she said… real life beckons :D
I see you’re one to trust then!? NOT.
Mrs T has only confirmed what Panda said in her opening post, that real life calls, I don’t see that as a breach of trust. Now if she shared what the real life commitment was, that would be a different matter…but she hasn’t.
@(f)politics? wrote:
yes terry i do
Pray tell?
We don’t know what evidence the police have but as they have charged him with murder and unlawful disposal and concealment of the body I would assume that they have sufficient evidence, including forensic evidence, to come to that conclusion.
Given the nature of the searches and the failure to find her, I suspect she’s been thrown into the river and the strong currents have taken her.
The McCanns are another story altogether…
Mrs T of course you have the right to share your experiences of the man and I have no doubt that he had the ability to portray this image, after all how would he have been so successful and revered if he hadn’t had that ability? However what you describe is typical of abusers. To the outside world they can appear charming, kind, considerate, and to a large degree that’s why it is difficult for the victims to come forward – they know how the person is perceived and they think that people won’t believe them. None of us ever sees the whole person no matter how close we might be and how well we might think we know someone. We see facets of them and form our perceptions on those facets, we will never see the whole person though so our perceptions will always be flawed.
A man may be seen by his mother as a loving son, by his wife as a loyal and supportive partner, by his colleagues as a firm but fair boss, by his mates as a good laugh to share a beer with, by his son as a great dad…and by his daughter as the man who uses her and abuses her. We all see facets, never the whole person.
I’m glad he never acted inappropriately with you daughter…maybe she was too close to home?
I think I’m having a sense of humour failure…I’m afraid there are some things that I don’t think should be joked about and made light of and abuse is one of them.
@terry wrote:
Does anyone remember her?
I’ve seen the pic before but can’t remember where or who…which is a long-winded way of saying no! :lol:
Glad we settled that so amicably :D
