[jen_jen]

@simplysu wrote:

@sceptical guy wrote:

I’m glad you’re happier now, Jen.

And it doesn’t surprise me.

You’re a fighter, a phoenix in spirit.

Don’t let anyone here pull you down.

I look forward to your flying visits.

I concur.

Just smile indulgently at passive aggression, JenJen. There is no easy fix for paranoia, which is rife in this place.

Life is far too precious and fragile to waste on negatives. Keep chasing those clouds away.

x

Sheesh, passive aggressives here, passive aggressives in real life…can’t move for them :wink:
And I love the last sentence…thank you xx :D

[jen_jen]

@cath 55 wrote:

@j_in_france wrote:

I have no need to say anything more after that last reponse ;)

you really cant help yourself can you J , once you have a bee in your beret lol x

Some might view it as bullying…

@j_in_france wrote:

@jen_jen wrote:

Is being ignored a form of bullying? :?

no jen_jen if you had something valid to say then you could imagine being ignored as being bullied – silly concept though

It seems that pointing out that scep isn’t the only person who has a different name on the boards to the chatroom isn’t valid.

@j_in_france wrote:

to be honest jen_jen do I really care what you say?

I could say more butyour shovel has already dug very deep

Neither is pointing out that ignoring is a form of bullying, although I don’t personally feel bullied. I wasn’t at all clear on what he meant about my shovel… :?

@j_in_france wrote:

something really fishy about some of the responders to this post

I didn’t really understand this either. :?

@j_in_france wrote:

you are really getting sadder every time you respond now jen_jen

If you don’t know I suggest you go fish

And all because I politely asked for an explanation of the comments that I didn’t understand…

@j_in_france wrote:

there is absolutlely no need to explain how stupid you are acting jen-jen

As above

@j_in_france wrote:

nahhh jen_jen you question my responses to your comments

perhaps you need to read them

btw do you live in Aberdeen?

Ah I see, J doesn’t like being questioned. But Aberdeen…do we have a case of mistaken identity here?

@j_in_france wrote:

just asking but if you feel threatened then just iggy

I didn’t feel threatened at all…should I have? I didn’t feel a need to iggy.

@j_in_france wrote:

is it that difficult to put me on iggy jen_jen

I think not – I just think you are so sad

please try and find a valid reason to iggy me

Why should I iggy? I don’t have a problem here :-s

@j_in_france wrote:

I have no need to say anything more after that last reponse ;)

Because I don’t feel the need to iggy?
Or because I’m at a happy time of my life?

So many attempts to belittle me in such a short space of time and why? Now if I didn’t have such a thick skin I could feel bullied by all this and there is the rub. Bullying takes many forms, often the people accused of bullying don’t even realise they are doing it, they just get caught up the moment and have that tunnel vision where all that exists is them and the words on the screen. They think that they are simply having the last word, or just speaking their minds like everyone else, or just “putting things right”. Or they just get caught up in the heat of the moment and get carried away.

The point is that we have all probably been bullied at some point in our lives and we have all probably been bullies at some point in our lives. We have choices. We can stand up to the people that are bullying at that time (I don’t think anyone is a bully all of the time), risking putting ourselves even more in the firing line; we can shrug and say “whatever, as long as they’re having a go at me they’re leaving some other poor soul alone” or we can refuse to tolerate it and just walk away.

I’ll end with a quote, and yes I am aware that it equally applies to me :wink:
– When you point one finger, there are three fingers pointing back to you.
or for the Christians amongst you
“Don’t focus on the speck in your brother’s eye while ignoring the log in your own eye.”

[jen_jen]

Why thank you scep, it’s been a long haul but the end is in sight at last. The future is looking bright, just a few relatively minor clouds to see off :D

I must be out of practice though, either I don’t understand the intent of some of the posts on this thread or I understand them only too well… I have tried to assume the former but I fear it is the latter. Ah well, nowt as queer as folk :wink:

/happy even though not from Aberdeen xx

[jen_jen]

Why on earth would I put you on iggy or seek a reason to put you on iggy? Although as far as I am aware there isn’t an ignore function on the boards, unless it’s changed recently and I’m not aware of it.

I am far from sad J, in fact I’m happier now than I have been in a long time :D

[jen_jen]

Why on earth would I feel threatened? Bemused, yes, threatened, no.

[jen_jen]

I have read them and I don’t understand them and don’t want to draw incorrect conclusions, hence my asking politely for an explanation, something that you are obviously unwilling to give.

Why do you want to know if I live in Aberdeen? :-k

[jen_jen]

Where am I having a go at you?
I don’t understand the meaning of some of your comments and I have politely asked you to explain them. You are the one “having a go”, calling me stupid (which I am not), telling me I’m getting sadder with each response without explaining why, need I go on?

[jen_jen]

Well there obviously is otherwise I wouldn’t be asking.
Unless you can’t explain.

[jen_jen]

Please do explain.

[jen_jen]

I’m getting sadder? Oh dear… :roll:

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