Probably a bit late but, go round the whole family and collect old photos from her past, scan them into the pc and print them out on glossy paper (the old pics can be a bit torn) and put them in an album for her.
Is that the same as naughts and crosses? ‘Cos I never win at that! Pretty good at dots and dashes though, but i don’t think you can play that on the pc.
You are right though and I think it falls under your category of the unknown, nightmares are the unknown:you’re subconcious thinking ahead and culminating in all your fears.
I still wish you hadn’t told me about your dad and the screaming lobsters though.
But it didn’t take you long to talk to me! I am very grateful too or else I would have been talking to myself.. and there’s nothing worse than a drunk woman talking to themselves!
Now you have just given me nightmares Veronica. That’s something else I am afraid of. Nightmares about thinking about things that scare me, if that makes sense. Not the nightmares themselves, but the objective.