I understood exactly what you meant Jen. Its easy to be misunderstood here and in real life. It must be very frustrating to hear after a person has passed they got it all wrong, but as you say we move on… still its a shame not to be able to just say to that person face to face…. no, this is the truth of it :(
Anyone remember these two… Paul and Barry Ryan, I have fond memories of them they were identical twins and it was impossible to tell them apart when they were young… Barry was the extrovert, Paul was always more studious… …. their mum was Marion Ryan the singer.