I think that the sex test thing is generational.
When I was young sex before marriage was a big deal so the sort of tests Cherri is talking about were not part of our psych… Things have changed so much though and I think Cherri is very wise to insist on tests after all some STDs are silent and people can have them without even knowing.
Have a feeling my kids would not appreciate me getting involved though but all parent child relationships are different. :?