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Tongues
Ecky thump.. hot in here!
Teapot
5) Vanishing Cream
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Lol Oss your picture makes my eyes go funny, welcome back!
Teapot
I rarely go into chat, if I do I always use a different name. Why not? I’m just going to be nosey, there is noone there knows me anyway.
Its good to pop in now and again and learn new swear words :lol:
Teapot
@yourchoice wrote:
@kent f OBE wrote:
…and some clubs YC probably have doors on their “booths” …compréndéz? :wink:
OOO hark at you with your posh words :lol: .I would rather go on my own experiences than an article that is written by a reporter who is at the end of the day paid to sell newspapers.
Actually YC there are lots of examples not just from Newspapers… Leeds University have done a study which bears out pretty much what the lap dancer Millie was saying… YC its obvious when you go to a club its just for innocent fun,,, if you wanted more and looked for it, I think you would find it. (thats not a suggestion by the way :lol: )
Teapot
@yourchoice wrote:
@thin ice wrote:
@mrs_teapot wrote:
Ok, Have to reply to this, against my better judgement here goes.
Its true that some women do Lap dancing and survive, some have degrees some fund their way through university some do it because it fits in with family and provides a good living. When I say survive that’s just what I mean because there is another face to Lap Dancing…. why do you think that the majority (not all) of clubs have private booths? maybe for little private chats? the truth is that Lap dancing is sex on the High Street and for those who say they enjoy it
“Milly, who entered the lap-dancing industry at the age of 24, said: “Of course you have to smile, pretend you’re enjoying it. That’s the act you have to put on.”
In a candid interview with The Times, lap dancer, Milly also shatters the myth that the practice “is no more than dancing”.
“No one sticks to that,” she said. “And if you do, you quickly lose out.”
She added: “Whether individual women feel degraded by them or not, lap-dancing degrades all of us because it’s providing a socially acceptable place for women to be treated as sex objects.”
Milly also warned that men need to appreciate the negative impact which the industry is having on women.
She said: “The only way to really change things, if there is such a thing as an equal society, is if men learn to understand that paying for sexual stimulation is degrading and does have a negative impact. It’s not just a bit of fun.”
I’m glad you all had a good time on your night out and it may be that you went to a club that really was just dancing (which I doubt) but please dont try to make these clubs sound innocent and just entertainment. That might be the experience you had… but dont kid yourself that’s all it is for all men.
Teapot
dont think i could have put it better my self mrs tea
at last some one with some morals on the boardsYou have got to be having a laugh!!
you think I dont have morals YC?
@kent f OBE wrote:
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@yourchoice wrote:
@mrs_teapot wrote:
Ok, Have to reply to this, against my better judgement here goes.
Its true that some women do Lap dancing and survive, some have degrees some fund their way through university some do it because it fits in with family and provides a good living. When I say survive that’s just what I mean because there is another face to Lap Dancing…. why do you think that the majority (not all) of clubs have private booths? maybe for little private chats? the truth is that Lap dancing is sex on the High Street and for those who say they enjoy it
“Milly, who entered the lap-dancing industry at the age of 24, said: “Of course you have to smile, pretend you’re enjoying it. That’s the act you have to put on.”
In a candid interview with The Times, lap dancer, Milly also shatters the myth that the practice “is no more than dancing”.
“No one sticks to that,” she said. “And if you do, you quickly lose out.”
She added: “Whether individual women feel degraded by them or not, lap-dancing degrades all of us because it’s providing a socially acceptable place for women to be treated as sex objects.”
Milly also warned that men need to appreciate the negative impact which the industry is having on women.
She said: “The only way to really change things, if there is such a thing as an equal society, is if men learn to understand that paying for sexual stimulation is degrading and does have a negative impact. It’s not just a bit of fun.”
I’m glad you all had a good time on your night out and it may be that you went to a club that really was just dancing (which I doubt) but please dont try to make these clubs sound innocent and just entertainment. That might be the experience you had… but dont kid yourself that’s all it is for all men.
Teapot
I dont know what type of club it was that Milly worked in but i can only go from experience of the two clubs i have been on the stag nights to.Not that i went in the booths(honest i didnt)but there is a notice up outside the booths telling the customers that all booths are covered by CCTV which is monitored by security and a strict 12 inch rule(no pun intended)is imposed,meaning – if you get within 12 inches of the girl you receive a warning,do it a second time and the dance ends immediately,if you touch a girl you will be immediately ejected from the club,no doubt rather unceremoniously by one of the rather large security guards.
As for degrading to the women,i can go on first hand experience of what they told me and dont have to rely on second hand information from a newspaper.
Just to add,Tut to all you women who have ever been to see a male stripper or the likes of the Chppendales :wink:
Actually YC your male stripper remark made me laugh,
Years ago I went on a ladies night out and there was a stripper on, he had a snake,,, I mean a real live one.
Thing is before the performance he had tried to chat to me and my friend and we gave him the cold shoulder,,, anyway imagine our surprise when he was on stage (we didnt know he was the stripper) as part of his act he started to work the crowd and was heading towards us.. I just knew he was going to involve us so we ran off to the ladies… blooming man followed us in there! we locked the loo door and he poked the snakes head under the door… so scary…. never felt the need to see a stripper again… went home :lol:
