and we wonder why our children and the next generation are in such a crisis… they always have been lol!!!! its an older/younger generation thingy. ive said much more hateful things to my folks than they have said too me, and my kids have said hateful things too me to. im learning as i go along but because of the hurtful things i said to my folks and never meant, i take what my kids say with a pinch of salt.
we aint here for long, some longer for others and id hate to leave things on a bad note so i do try to be the peacemaker. dont let things niggle away at you. a few choice words are not worth years of hurt (as my dad has had). its not worth it and it aint nice. :?