Is it ever ok to lie about having cancer or faking your own death?

kent f OBE wrote:

Fights, abuse and retaliations have gone way way too far in JC….it will never stop unless the site closes down and you don’t have any other contact with those people anywhere else on the net

Ms K, I like most of your comments on this thread, but let me take issue with this one.

The abuse and fights haven’t changed since we first came to this site many aeons ago. The slanders and gossip have changed in their targets, but only in their targets. Only recently, I’ve been called everything from a wife-beater to an adult baby wanting his crap cleaned off his nappy(! – not sure whether to laugh or be sick on that one), but worse things were said about people when i first came here (I stopped being a reg f3 because it was so nasty). The fights have been constant, and even if you didn’t come here to fight you were forced into it – from my memory, you gave at least as good as you got.

Throughout my time here, some men were trying to get the women on private cams to reveal their charms, and some women were more than happy to oblige (consenting adults). Their photos were then handed round and posted, to the intense embarrassment of many, forcing a number off. Names and addresses were posted, naturally heightening the anxiety of the targets. You put up with it and learned to handle it, or you just decided that the site was a write-off and left – the sane ones left, that is.

But it’s nothing to do with this site in particular. I found other sites just as bad – or intensely boring. The abuse – especially the photos and the dangerous posting of names and addresses – has been so bad that it’s been made illegal – it’s a national problem, whatever the social network (tweeting and sexting are the current faves, aren’t they?)

So calling for the site to be closed down is not going to help. If things are that bad, you connect privately with your friends and leave the site – or go invisible in the chatrooms.

Dangermousey wrote:

echo told me you were a disgusting pervert who wanted to be breastfed like a baby, and I swear that on my kids lives. defend her all you like, she cannot keep secrets and she plays everyone and she goes in everyones pms telling everyone about everyone. but you can all defend this ”victim’

Agreed. These people don’t know the half of it.

I am a grown, single, woman. I was single when those pictures were sent. I am NOT ashamed of sending them. I know exactly how they were “leaked” and there is more to this than any of you know.

Sarah.. one minute you loathe Alfie, accuse him of trying to drive you to suicide, the next hounding him in here telling him you love him. You rage at me because I still occasionally chat to the guy, send me drunken vocaroos crying and bitching about anyone who dares to talk to “your soulmate” That video? Where you were drunk. I’ve seen you tell him you were sober and you enjoyed him watching you.

When your pic got spammed, your concern wasn’t that you were topless it was that you looked rough.

You keep stuff on people as “insurance”

You were outraged when your pics were spammed, so much so you posted a grim one of me and asked who looked better. You spammed my pic because I refused to listen to just you. There are two sides to every story and truth always outs.

I’ve done stuff that was stupid, needy and hurtful but they were always lies about myself. Whereas you?

You wanna do this? Fine, go for it.

A woman’s woman lol

Sarah.

You’re a mess.

So was I. Difference is I clawed my way out of that hole. You hit bottom and grabbed a shovel to keep digging.

Oh, and Sarah..

Morg urinated on you and you still talked to him.