[jeanie]

i know that life is precious and every day for some is a chance to hold tighter to someone, that may be terminally ill. however there does come a time that for some that their quality of life is such that given the choice they would like to die.

as a relative, we dont want them to go, we want them to stay with us as long as possible, is that selfish ? when you are asked , are you ready to let them go , what would be yr answer ?

bad nite for me, and seeing this thread has made me think as ive had a really difficult conversation tonite where i have been asked for permission by a doctor to do something. it wont make the persons life better just prolong it, so i know that the person would not wish this to continue, but if i give my permission am i being selfish , in trying to hold them here for a wee bit longer but they will still be in pain and unhappy

im not looking for replies, i just thought id show you both sides,

no rite no wrong, goodnite and god bless everyone

kj x

[jeanie]

su, your feelings will be understood by many in here , and you put into words what most of us would be unable to do.

the thing about letting your guard down is that you let some of the sad individuals into yr life who then take advantage, however there are many others who value you who would see no harm come to you, and would only wish the best for you.

the easiest thing is in the world to do is to pull away, to lock yr heart and head and judge all by the evil standards, however you know deep down that you are that good person
the impact that you have on others draws them to you.
im a firm believer in karma and that to waste time on the negative aspects does you no good, i know its hard, let them go, smile, believe that you are worth so much more than they will ever have

i could count the people in here that i truly have respect for on one hand you are one of them, you have never been less that honest and supportive and you deserve nothing less in return. xx

[jeanie]

mmmm nice pics and thanks, what a nice thing to wake up to on a saturday morning,

is it ok, if i just watch to see the tottie, ahem i mean young men at the height of their physical peak and applaud their efforts ?

have a good weekend everyone

and come on the hibees x

[jeanie]

nicey, well done we did it ! to everyone, have a lovely easter

will be thinking of you all when i have my first bite off chocolate today

kj x

[jeanie]

Hope you have a lovely day,
and get spoilt rotten

best wishes kj x

[jeanie]

penny, hope you spend the day being pampered and getting the day you deserve

have a lovely time xx

[jeanie]

to all the ladies of the room,

we dont need a man to give us flowers or kisses ( alth its really nice when they do )

so i wish you a happy valentines, lose your heart, yr head or your knix whatever you fancy

have a great day

kj

:lol: :lol:

[jeanie]

words dearest, come here let me educate you,

nope lol cant do it im frigid :oops:

[jeanie]

ok come on they arent all that bad, lol

its chat, its meant to be a laugh a bit of fun, lets face it, its not real life, very few will ever meet and if they do and they are disappointed well maybe it because in here the reality seldom has very much to do with how we describe or come across in pm

so to the daft men who pm asking the colour of yr knix, dont bother they are grey
to the men in the room who are decent, fun and banter, keep doing what you are doing
the majourity make me smile

see you in never land where im a size 6 frigid old mare

byeeeeeee :D

[jeanie]

why cant i just say no, that last drink was such a mistake :oops:

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