@matty wrote:
ok, here is somthing for you all to ponder with, i’ll try not to go on
but my friend currently works in a very enjoyable job for a little amount of money, the reason it is enjoyable is because she gets on so well with her boss, so well that they go to gigs together, she buys her gifts for no reason, looked after her.. groomed her and given her confidence over the years
however, the time had come for her to look for a job for more money, so she applied for a job and got it.. its about 5 grand a year more, she was over whelmed
but her boss has not taken it too well, her boss has insulted her, called her selfish and basicly shut the door in her face and told her to get out of her house tonight, she feels really bad, her current boss has basicly black mailed her to say, stay here.. or me for or lose the friendship
she is cut up about it, my opinion is, that maybe her boss is’nt the friend she cracked up to be, she is in tears now… and not only has her boss been insulting her but her ex boyfriend has too who is also friends with her… she is now to the stage where she thinks she will refuse this new job for the sake of keeping the peace
I think thats daft… what would you do? and how would you as a friend deal with it, do i step in and try and help and speak to her boss, or leave her to it
to me, she is getting bullied and part of me wants to get involved because this should’nt happen, regardless of how hurt her boss may feel
sharron.. you are the only one up right now.. give us your feedback :)
Offer her a place to stay whilst she gets her life sort and finds somewhere to stay and point out real friends wouldn’t treat her like sh!t.