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“I liked it..but what does he mean by insult, bawdiness, rudeness beoing ‘brilliant things, but only if done well'” Scep

I dunno Scep…. maybe ….he’s probably …referring to Shakespeare?

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And this ….

He needs to go away and sort himself out. I got streesed just reading that cr@p

It’s easy to stay stress-free – just smile and take deep breaths.

*smiles*

:D

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@a certain sadness wrote:

I very rarely smile terry :(

That’s not what I’ve heard…….a certain smiler…..lol

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I like to write essays. In fact I’m considering cutting an pasting large theological and philosophical tracts, which involve a minimum amount of work on my part and a lot of work on the part of those silly enough to read them.

I totally agree with this Scep….

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@terry wrote:

So angry. Jeese.

Just controversial ! Oh I forgot to add

It’s Tom Chivers….The Telegraph …. :lol:

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Oh yeah – it’s only banter . . . . . . . . . . that always works . . . . .

What’s this banter all about?

“But. Oh, God, but. The people defending it. “It’s only banter”, they all say. I have seen the word “banter” probably 50 times this morning. Banter. “It’s not our fault if you can’t take a bit of banter.” “Grow up, it’s only a bit of banter.” “Get a sense of humour, it’s just banter.” Banter.
Banter is not humour; banter is what people have when they lack a sense of humour. Banter is a catch-all word for idiocy that warns the rest of us that Here Be Lads. Banter is Soccer AM. It is Andy Gray. It is middle-aged men on Top Gear pretending that they are edgy outsiders by mocking society’s weakest, then going home to Chipping Norton where they live two doors down from the Prime Minister. It is an English stag do in Dublin or Amsterdam with matching T-shirts. It is cruelty unleavened by wit but which is excused because it is a bit like wit, if you look at it from a certain angle. It what is left when humour has died, and just the rotting, stinking carcass remains, bearing a resemblance to the living being but lacking all that made it good. Banter is the Dunning-Kruger effect writ large. If you like banter, you are an idiot.
I’m not a fan.
This is not a tirade against rudeness. I am all in favour of rudeness, of bawdiness, of insult and mockery and obscenity. They’re all brilliant things, when done well. But “banter” isn’t. If you insult someone, you expect them to be insulted; if you are rude, you expect people to be offended. “Banter” is apparently a free pass: I can insult you, but you’re not allowed to be insulted, because “it’s only banter”. I can be obscene, but you can’t be offended, because “it’s only banter”. No. If you’re a grown-up, you know that your offensiveness may offend, and you either accept that or you apologise and don’t do it again. Saying “it’s only banter” makes you not only an idiot, but an idiot who can’t take responsibility for his own jokes.
This isn’t “only banter”. I’m literally and specifically saying that if you – you, the reader – like “banter”, you are an idiot. You are welcome to be offended by that.”

And yes… it’s a long winded quote ……

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COOKIE MONSTER NIGHTMARE !!!!!

Delete cookies ? !!!! ?????

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Cookies!

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Oh my fav Muppet …..has to be ….the Cookie Monster ! love him!

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@terry wrote:

threads that I wish to read or post on.

The NeverEnding Story thread is pants as are the ones started by rogue trader.

It’s frustrating to say the least.

Are you all mad or just plain boring? And no wordsworth – that question wasn’t aimed at you specifically.

hi tel :lol:

good to see that at last ….this one is soooo interesting to you !

Btw rogue trader is always,always funny ! no second thinking on that ! Hi Cosy !

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