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Online it’s easy to be something you’re not and as long as that doesn’t hurt others then ok, it maybe gives the person a little bit of self esteem as long as it isnt a total fantasy, but i cant see the point really cause 9 times out of ten you get found out.
Anyway the captain has just said were ready to up anchor cause i’m taking the yacht to Cannes for a few days going to see if i cant cheer up Cheryl Cole, Sandra Bullock and Tiger Woods missus@cass_2000 wrote:
@jen_jen wrote:
@cass_2000 wrote:
What if the person had claimed to be single to others, and arranged to meet them but had been found out before they had chance to follow through.. would you consider that reason pete?
Oh that’s a biiiiiiig reason!
What if they claim they was never actually going to follow through with it?
They’re a liar or a coward one of the two
@cass_2000 wrote:
@pete wrote:
But then you’re lack of trust has to be genuine not paranoia I think you have to have reason not to trust them
You mean they have to have actually gone out and had sexual encounters in some way?
Could be anything not just sex and they dont have actually had to have slept together to break someones trust
It’s possible if you can forgive i guess but only the once whatever it was cant happen twice
OK :lol:
But then you’re lack of trust has to be genuine not paranoia I think you have to have reason not to trust them
@cass_2000 wrote:
So essentially jen and pete, you’re both saying if you don’t have trust, you don’t have much of a relationship?
dont think you have one at all cause one or the other is always wondering
yeah i guess it’s how you define flirting, i’m talking about indicating a romantic or sexual interest towards someone else
I’ve got a cold i aint moaning it’s just a cold
@cass_2000 wrote:
Does not having trust end a relationship? what if you chose to start again, try and rebuild the trust… which is what the post is orginally about really, forgiving and forgetting.
I dont think you ever can forget or ever should really, but you have to forgive otherwise you’re sort of bearing a grudge and that’s like poisoning yourself and waiting for the other person to die, and you’ll never rebuild that trust