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@king of the south wrote:

How anyone can say
that being a unmarried parent isnt good for kids is
actually talking bolcks lets face it half the population are either single or unmarried
why should it be coz they single they cant bring children up properly
its wrong.

as for gays being parents why nott?
dont they have a right to give kids a decent home with love n warmth?
i think if they can support kids by working 9/5 then why not?

its not wrong kids in care need homes so why shouldnt ppl be allowed 2 bring them up
weather they be black/white/green straight/gay/bi

rainny your talkin shiyt sorry i think you should quite whilst your a head
your proberly single parent yourself.

I think the translation is single parents have nothing to do with direct or indirect parenting which is not positive in nature

So give me a reason why this country has the highest divorce rates in Europe, the highest teen pregnancy and highest teen abortion rates (and I might add the highest number of sexual partners before the age of 18 for both male and female)

It is not always about conscious role modelling

Example A
Mr and Mrs X split up with two kids who live with Mrs X but stay weekends with Mr X.

Mr and Mrs X are now single and live a little in theri new found freedom (only a couple of partners each in the first year though)- then have a couple of medium term relationships (1 partner per year for 2 years) and then each settle down in year 3 with a partner who they are each now with. Sounds normal, simple and nothing too wrong there

Except the kids see 10 (count em) different partners in their parents lives in 5 years, don’t see the need to work at a relationship and see it as less valued. The parents have done nothign wrong and certainly no one would say they were “slappers” etc but what is the impact, subconsciously, on young children COMPARED to a stable married relationship (and yes, the argument for stable unmarried relationships is still open)

Just because single parents (and I’m counted in the single parent now remarried category) consciously act and behave in a way designed to support their kids doesnt mean the impact of actions arent there

IMHO

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Yes Tilly I concede

I meant to say the title was stupid not the intetnion behind the thread as it is clearly worth debating

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@sharongooner wrote:

Why is it that when you’re driving and looking for an address, you turn down the volume on the radio?

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confusing isnt it! :shock:

It is but this one is a scientific reason (its the same reason you turn the radio down or tell the kids to shut up when you’re driving, slightly lost, and are looking for road signs and directions- its to do with the ability of your brain to multi task sights and sounds- it can’t do both well in high numbers

But you didnt really want a proper answer, did ya- s’ok, I’m jus an anorak anyway :lol: :lol: :lol:

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Firstly its a stupid topic for a thread cos clearly there are good and bad parents whether single or otherwise but there are some stats which go to show that whilst the few on here may shout very loudly in support of single/unmarried parents, overall something aint right

This country has

Highest number of teenage pregnancies in Europe
Highest number of single parents in Europe
Highest number of divorces in Europe
Highest number of homes occupied by one person only in Euorpe
Highest abortion rate in Europe
Highest teenage abortion rate in Europe
Highest number of pregnancies to unmarried mothers in Europe
And thats without mentioning drug and alcohol abuse etc etc

Something is causing this? It is a cancer in our society which is growing and growing? For me it isn’t really about individual parents (although I tend to agree with PB around marriage etc) its about how society views things.

Anyone can be a bad parent or good parent and there are clearly some quality parents on here who are very vociferous but take one step back, take a deep breath and think again. Why do we have the highest number of divorces and highest teenage pregnancy rate and highest teenage abortion rate in Europe? Are they really not connected?

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Ooh, I did mean to say that minority ethnic can apply to white europeans too (as per the advert!) ie Poles, etc so it’s actaully not anti white as an advert…jus anti white british

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@waspish wrote:

well heres an update for u all. six weeks ago i applied for a job working for the trans-pennine express rail company. the job was advertised on line and at our local joke shop. [job centre to us] i had to first have a chat with the station manager. then had a formal interview with a panel of two people. [both men] i was pleased to be told i had passed the interview and would hear about the outcome within the week. later in the week a letter arrived and informed me, that i was successful and pending a medical report, the job was mine. i had the medical, which was very thorough. and did the urine drug tests. [they are very anti drugs] anyway. last friday i was called and officially offered the job…. yippee. bang on worragudoo…. as we say here. but the interesting thing is. there were 94 applicants for the job. and only three from people of colour. they were very open and honest. so how the hell are they ever going to get coloured only applicants in london. ???? im baffled… :lol: :lol: :lol:

So Waspish, best person got the job, as they always should (unless you’re being selected to stand for parliament then women get preferential treatment in some constituencies). And only 3 people applied from a none white community- now I think I may be right, but you’ve mentioned (a couple of times :lol: ) that you live in an area which is high in Muslim communities yet it appears none of them applied for this job? Perhaps they knew you were and thought the competition was too high

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@emmalush wrote:

@*Dawny* wrote:

I like the fact that the UK is diverse, I like the mixture of people and mixed beliefs.

How many proper friends do you have that are white, asian or black? Way to many to mentionWhat are the religions of these proper friends? Some Christian, Catholic, Hindu, MuslimWhat is there musical tastes? As diverse as they are

So you like the belief of islam that when your born, your dad uses a 10inch knife to cut your head several times? How would you feel watching your muslim friend do that?

Do you and your christian friends like the islamic tradition/belief that the way to kill sheep is by slitting their throat and letting them bleed to death?

Would you ask your non white friends what they think of London Transpot’s job application for me.

The catholics believe that once someone’s pregnant, that the pregnancy should never be aborted. Is it any of their business?

The catholics also dont believe in contraception, and believe its “wrong”, again, is it a good thing they stick their noses into other folk’s affairs?

You dont have any sick friends?

I have no arguments with the current government. I do think the judicial system could do with an overhall and take victims into more consideration.

Please examin this carefully, its a contradiction my friend. No contradiction Emma, just stating a fact

You have no arguments with the government, but think the judicial system that they are responsible for, needs a overhaul…

Britain makes a loss of £2.5 billion per year being part of the EU, effectively, our membership card costs us £2.5B. This is down to the government, are you happy with that loss?

Your entitled to your views, I have never questioned your beliefs, why question anyone elses?

If you havn’t questioned my beliefs, then why question my views? My views are my beliefs. I still aint questioned your opinions, belief or views

Then what does this mean, “why question anyone elses?” ??

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I can’t be bothered to quote a quote but

Judaism uses virtually the same ritualistic slaughter methods at Islam (Kosher and Halal) so add Jews to your little black book- and clearly you’ve never been to an abattoir or you;d know that the slaughtering of animals is not one of life’s pleasant tasks, no matter what your religion

I can’t be ar/sed to argue further ref LT but if you want, i’ll post dozens of links from LT which demonstrate no positive discrimination for job adverts

Catholicism, Islam, Judaism, Christianity..I don’t recall any of them trying to make YOU do something you don’t- jus cos catholics (allegedly) don’t practise contraception, jus cos Muslims believe in something different, jus because Judaism believe they are descended from the Israelites- N Moses n all that- does that mean they MAKE you follow their will…no it doesnt

I’ve never ever found anyone so bitterly paranoid as you Bushy and so intent on thinking the world is out to get you…live a little and relax, take a chill pill n see the world in daylight, without those blinkers :D

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@emmalush wrote:

@colkaz wrote:

Emmalush,why do you want to be banned?
I take it from various comments i’ve read that you are an avid follower of the BNP.
At the end of the day so long as you’re not one of them “send all blacks back to their own country type of person” i really cannot see a problem.
If its a case of very little tact on your behalf,think before you write a comment the impression this will likely have on contributors to this site!
If you’re not happy with the site dont vist it!
As for PB he might not be everyones cup of tea,but he dont seem a bad lad.

Remember its the outspoken and sometimes rude people that make this site work.
If they werent here i wouldn’t give the site the time of day!

Ive answered these questions.

Nowt wrong with the BNP, and they dont have a policy to send anyone anywhere. VOLUNTARY repatriation, helped with finance we waste on the war and eu. Next time a namby pamby liberal says they wana kick coco pops out the country, remember to tell them their wrong.

I cant believe slavery slayer voted not to have me banned, and that 61% dont want me banned, thanks. Spose i’d better keep fighting the haters of freedom :)

Y’see Emma..being understanding means lots of things- why would I want to be such a “fascist” as to wish you banned

(The word “fascist” alwasy reminds me of the Young Ones)

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Awww, another multi user name?

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@emmalush wrote:

@slayer wrote:

YES- there will be other incompetent HR pink and fluffy nobodies out there who think that adverts like this promote a good image of a multi racial society when in fact it does the opposite.

STOP THE PRESS, A LILLY LIVERD WHITE LIBERAL HAS SEEN THE A GLIMER OF LIGHT THROUGH THE BLACKENED TUNNEL.

PRAISE WHATEVER LORD MAY BE UPON US, PRAISE THE SOIL OF THE EARTH, PRAISE BE THE POTTENTIAL FORTHCOMING OF A NEW BEGINNING.

Awwww, you’re Bushy blinkers stopped you from seeing the truth

I’ve lost count of the times I’ve said this…and only now do you read it :lol: :lol: :lol:

When you finally see the light, you’ll be able to come and join us :wink: :wink:

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