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    Seriously q..some remarks I am passing over..

    However, why keep up the hope..important, some give up easy. My 35 year old friend too was a jehovah witness. She needed a transfusion of blood. I was her hospital contact and health care proxy. Due to her beliefs, the faith..refused treatment..I fought every witnesses possible..I held them accountable for her final demise. Sure dam did. She needed real blood not the fake kind. She gave up..slowly died painfully in a month. Another 45 gave up hope stage 4 cancer, depression, loss or belief in hope died one week later. Yes Q. Many out there throw in towel when hear that word “cancer.” 6 other people close to me as well. Slow painful disease, no hope. Refusal to push on too tired. Many reasons why people give up.

    #1117157

    And sometimes you just can’t blame them when you see and fully understand what they have to endure , often with only little chance given of survival. Sometimes it’s perfectly understandable. In certain circumstances I know I would.

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    #1117158

    And mizzy, I am sorry for your loss. I too have been on a depression role at times regarding it. My neighbor I check in all the time with family on holiday, as said, do me. I was anxious before my recent holiday and dam had test again before I left. I was anxious.  Once again while I was away happened again test results. Coming back into jc at early morning hours, hearing it constantly brought me down so low..yes I cried at the spewing going on.

    Sorry I made a thread up like this one so close to home at jc I could not breath tbh.

    So thanks all for understanding.

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    #1117159

    i am getting nasty texts and messages calling me names

    i am being abused.

    ok im sorry

    why are you abusing me for not going to bed?

     

    #1117160

    And mizzy, I am sorry for your loss. I too have been on a depression role at times regarding it. My neighbor I check in all the time with family on holiday, as said, do me. I was anxious before my recent holiday and dam had test again before I left. I was anxious. Once again while I was away happened again test results. Coming back into jc at early morning hours, hearing it constantly brought me down so low..yes I cried at the spewing going on.

    Sorry I made a thread up like this one so close to home at jc I could not breath tbh.

    So thanks all for understanding.

    hey im sorry x

    you seem like a real person right now x

    i am real too

    wow can we be friends?

    XX

     

    #1117162

    OK BASICALLY

    ive got a guinea pig

    so i am going to cuddle him feed him and extend his life.

    so you  can all abuse me and kiss my arse, but i am a guinea pigs mummy so fuck you all

     

    He is beautiful and he squeeks and loves being cuddled.

    i love him

    he is my baby

    so dont be my girlfriend,

    i love him x

     

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7pxGZUMv3C4

     

     

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    #1117163

    Actually Linda….you blame the faith…but yer friend believed enough to stand firm in what she believed……yer having a go at Religion here and disregarding your friends beliefs…..

    In all respect linda you have no right to hold any one accountable………..yer friend put her faith in their hands and its her hope in the resurrection that keeps her going…….you have no right to hold any one accountable….a very arrogant statement ….a lot like sceppers………..

    But never the less loss is tragic……….but the Witnesses are standing up for their congregation member who made it very clear what her stand was………in the long run you really should be very happy for her………..

    Contrary to perhaps popular belief………in the Witness community….no one is ever forced to do any thing against their will……she made a rational decision to not have blood transfusions and its legally binding. Its not for you to fight against it as yer going against yer own friends wishes………..

    Id do a lot more research before you blame any one………..Witness ar   the leadin gauthority on blood issues in the world………….the medical profession like many other professions will never accept it…..

    How ever at this particular time………..im happy for your friend….but I do share yer sadness at losing her….

    #1117169

    Thank you q for advice and direction. Actually my friend was torn as she knew needed real blood. She felt very challenged and uncertain as she alone also took care of her elderly parents at the time.. hard road and I too supported her and family. She also tried to speak to leaders. She so torn got depressed between family and beliefs.. my opinion the struggle she made and hoped for to try to convince the leaders let her decline rapidly that much more due to loss time. In the end Q. She gave up on hope on life, spirit..8 years with her battle. She not care any more. So Q. She let her grief, worries and burden to me as I made a promise so she could rest in peace not worry for her parents. I took care of them for 13 years. Both elderly at time. I was appointed their guardians..know how hard to do on death bed and attorneys, legal system. So maybe I advocated for her, angry for her. Yes perhaps held on to her for hope and peace..so yes I did what was right..I fought for her she afraid to go against her faith.. sadly..perhaps..for me my faith was over taken by their religious beliefs. I have no malice to witnesses. But this group..yep I was entitled. They convinced her what they believed was right..better. not blood to help her.. they told her no. Scared her..yep. I keep my stand about that particular leader and group.

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    #1117182

    OK BASICALLY

    ive got a guinea pig

    so i am going to cuddle him feed him and extend his life.

    so you can all abuse me and kiss my arse, but i am a guinea pigs mummy so fuck you all

    He is beautiful and he squeeks and loves being cuddled.

    i love him

    he is my baby

    so dont be my girlfriend,

    i love him x

    Sugababes – Caught In A Moment

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    I apologise.

    I had wine and was a bit daft x

    Please forgive x

     

    #1117183

    And mizzy, I am sorry for your loss. I too have been on a depression role at times regarding it. My neighbor I check in all the time with family on holiday, as said, do me. I was anxious before my recent holiday and dam had test again before I left. I was anxious. Once again while I was away happened again test results. Coming back into jc at early morning hours, hearing it constantly brought me down so low..yes I cried at the spewing going on.

    Sorry I made a thread up like this one so close to home at jc I could not breath tbh.

    So thanks all for understanding.

    Yes its hard to read, I know who was saying the awful things about Alfie having cancer.  It is the same person who keeps posting my pics and address up.

    I have my reasons for being ‘upset’ with Alfie but I would never ever wish cancer on anyone.  Blossom was the one who first said Alfie was ill just from looking at one picture of him.  Personally I thought he looked fine, bit tired maybe.

    No matter how upset I might be about someone I would never wish cancer on them.  I mean I might say hope a bus hits you if I am really pi**ed off with them but cancer? no.

    Trouble is when I defend Alfie in this regard it makes the person who is typing about cancer type it more as they get even more angry.

    I also wont sit by and watch people getting called bad parents regardless of who they are.

    Blossom calls people bad parents, shes never even had kids yet judges so many people in this way.

    I just don’t agree with people being trolled over their kids, cancer or family/pet deaths.

    I may even totally dislike the person getting trolled, but I still wont sit by without saying something in their defence.

    Knowing the difference between right and wrong is important whether irl or online.

    Some things simply should not be said.

    It doesn’t mean I have forgiven them or like them, it just means I am fair minded and true to myself.

     

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