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  • #522828

    laney, you are correct it is not about you so all your self praise is wasted.
    I never said you didnt chat in pm to Laine.
    I have’nt judged anyone by rumours at all, I have merely repeated what Laine has said herself in the room.
    I have not mentioned her pictures or judged her about them.
    I know you apologised to Moonshadow.
    And finally I am not trying to ‘get to you’ dear. You hold very little interest.

    #522829

    :roll: likewise coathanger…. likewise…. Pathetic :lol:

    #522830

    Still laughing at the description of apologising after being told he is mine. This is me Laine is talking about!!! Tongue in cheek I said clown have you been cheating on me. clown knew I was taking the pee as it is the banter we have! coat hanger was spot on! However the grief you got was by then following up by intimating I was a slapper and had a few guys in the room. You got told and you deserved it…. So Laine you either have a selective memory or are twisting the truth to make yourself a victim. Says it all

    #522831

    Thanks Laney, i must say you are one of the nicest people i chatted to at length. hopefully no one else will get this barrage of abuse,
    for yet another record i was NOT here to find a lasting friendship with a male, fgs have a little bit of nouse you idiots, im still grieving for my husband……..oh i wonder if thats actually allowed? is that all me me me again because of emotional pain, at least mine is real and not some made up abuse about others.
    have i judged anyone?? called anyone names in any of my posts? don’t think so.

    so there you have it, i dont need or want telling what to do, a little advice may have come in handy yes, but in a friendly way instead of you must not talk to this or that person, no when i put a photo on and i was sleighted for it and it quickly got out of hand to all out abuse, i take exception to that. i think anyone would, i mean in the bigger scheme of things what exactly is this kangaroo court accusing sentencing and hanging me for? being honest?….. for being brave enough to allow people to see a photo of me? because that is how it looks. so bloody childish and i “thought” wrongly that i could actually have a giggle here, a much needed one. seems i was wrong. and Laney see Moon she will give you my address for skype and we can continue to chat if you so wish.

    #522832

    Ummmm….ok, hands up, I AM only going by what I see on the boards but please, if you aren’t looking for a man why are you posting sexually suggestive photos of yourself?

    I see several people trying to give you advice but you seem to interpret it as telling you what to do…ah well, it’s your journey, I wish you well wherever it takes you.

    #522833

    Laine, nothing I have said on this thread has been abusive towards you. You started this thread and i can see why entirely, however, in doing so you open yourself up to others opinions who may or may not agree with you. You are not a stupid woman and with the exception of 1 female, none of the replies you have had have been from stupid people.
    That their opinions differ from yours does not infact make them a ‘barrage of abuse’. It may feel that way when so many disagree with you, but it is infact only ‘re-course’, and advise and maybe if you listened more you would have enjoyed your experience in JC more. We have all been subjected to rudeness, gossip and abuse at one time or another and we, in the most part, have come thru it. This weeks news, next weeks chip paper.
    Youve obviously had to deal with far more harrowing things in your life than falling out with people in a chat forum, so maybe you should just take it on the chin and try again or try another one :D
    Or do as many others do, re-invent yourself and bite your lip more !!

    #522834

    jen jen…….you think wearing a long sleeved dress is sexual? seriously?? i have two legs, lucky me, cant feel one of them but i do have two, i have breasts, – i’m female every other person has them but even meatloaf has a decent pair, maybe i should have done it in context, put a before and after photo on there, so people could see that i was close to death and then maybe the context would have been right, but again id be accused of doing me me me wouldnt i?? see im in a kind of catch 22 here, damned if i do and damned if i dont, i didnt see anything wrong in allowing people to see who they were chatting to, and… even my close up face photo i was told i look “up for it” how??
    my daughter took the photo – how do people see sex in places where it isnt? small minds? maybe? not my problem is it? some very twisted minds…… and im sorry this appears me me me yet again, but if i have crap thrown at me i explain my reasons, its an innocent photo which my daughter took because SHE was proud of me and i have to say no one else has EVER seen my photos as sexual.
    i dont have a problem with photos, some do not my problem tis theirs

    #522835

    for gods sake if u cant take some one making a comment then your no good in the chat room ,every one cant get along so for god sake let it drop ffs its silly never mind making ppl welcome its a chat room bloody hell get a grip x

    #522836

    @laine wrote:

    jen jen…….you think wearing a long sleeved dress is sexual? seriously?? i have two legs, lucky me, cant feel one of them but i do have two, i have breasts, – i’m female every other person has them but even meatloaf has a decent pair, maybe i should have done it in context, put a before and after photo on there, so people could see that i was close to death and then maybe the context would have been right, but again id be accused of doing me me me wouldnt i?? see im in a kind of catch 22 here, damned if i do and damned if i dont, i didnt see anything wrong in allowing people to see who they were chatting to, and… even my close up face photo i was told i look “up for it” how??
    my daughter took the photo – how do people see sex in places where it isnt? small minds? maybe? not my problem is it? some very twisted minds…… and im sorry this appears me me me yet again, but if i have crap thrown at me i explain my reasons, its an innocent photo which my daughter took because SHE was proud of me and i have to say no one else has EVER seen my photos as sexual.
    i dont have a problem with photos, some do not my problem tis theirs

    I must have missed the one with the long sleeve dress, I remember one reclining with a very short skirt leaving very little to the imagination, and one, possibly two, where you looked as if you were naked…and no one has EVER seen your photos as sexual? Really? Wow I must have a warped mind then :roll:

    BTW I wasn’t throwing crap at you, but you seem to see it in every persons’ comments to you. Maybe it’s time to step away for a little while, gain a little perspective? We all do it from time to time, get so caught up in chat that we develop a kind of tunnel vision and take everything personally, and I personally find that a bit of time and space usually helps. Not telling you what to do you understand, just a friendly suggestion. :)

    #522837

    Is this the Long sleeved dress ? :shock: * rubs eyes* I must need new specs !

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